Iingcali zengqondo zithi i-charm ingatholakala ngokusebenza kuwe, kuba kuxhomekeke kuninzi kumlingani wakho, izimvo zakho ebomini, isimo sakho sengqondo malunga noko kwenzekayo. Ukuba unomdla kakhulu ngombuzo wendlela yokuba intombazana enomdla, jonga ngokwakho ngathi uvela ngaphandle.
Ukuba awuhlali ujabule nomsebenzi, indawo yakho, ekupheleni, imozulu; ukuba igosa lakho eliphambili lingenelisekile kuwo wonke umntu kunye nayo yonke into, akukho mntu uya kukufumana unqabileyo. Musa ukupenda ibhinqa, kwaye nangaphezulu-intombazana encinci, ukunyaniseka, ngokukrakra kakhulu kubangela ukuhleka okanye ingxoxo. Ewe, akukho nto inokuthi uya kuhlawulwa, kodwa luhlobo luni oluya kubakho - zicinge.
Abanye abantu bacinga ukuba intombazana enomdla imnandi. Akunjalo nakwixesha eliqhelekileyo kunokuba kunjalo, umhlobiso onjalo awuzukuhlaziywa ngobuhle obubandayo, obunomdla wokuzibonakalisa kwizibuko, kodwa uyintombazana yembonakalo eqhelekileyo, kodwa uyamtsala ngokuvuleka kwakhe, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, ukucinga ngokubanzi, ukukwazi ukuphulaphula. Ngokuqhelekileyo bethetha ngala mazwi: "kuyo - ulwandle lwentlalo!"
Indlela yokuba ngumfazi othandekayo nonomdla?
Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokuthakazelisa nokukhangela amadoda, zihlolisise kwaye uzihlawule ukusebenza:
- sebenze ngembonakalo yakho: kufuneka ufunde ukubheka imfashini kunye nenhle, kodwa kungenakuqhaqhaqhaqa - ukugqithisa okanye ukugcoba okufanayo kwaye akuyikukuvumela ukuba uqonde umphefumlo wakho, kwaye abaninzi baya kukhishwa;
- Ukutyelela ubuhle be-salon - vumela iingcali zikuncede ukhethe i-hairstyle eza kufihla ukungaphumeleli (ukuba kukho) kwaye iya kugxininisa isidima sakho. Kodwa nangona ungafuni ukutshintsha, iinqwelo zakho kufuneka zihlale zilungele kwaye zicoceke;
- ngqalelo ingqalelo yakho, indlela yokuthetha-oku kubalulekile.
Nangona kunjalo, utshintsho lwangaphandle alukho konke. Abafazi abathandekayo, njengomthetho, baxhamla. Oku kuthetha ukuba ngamnye kubo unento ethile, eyingqayizivele, kwaye yilo "nto" eyenza njalo.
Ukuze ube ngumsindo, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukuzithemba, kungekhona nje ngaphandle, kodwa nangaphakathi. Abantu ababuKrismatic, njengomthetho, banomxholo othile obahlula kwabanye:
- banombono obanzi, bayazi kwaye bazi kakuhle, kwaye babelane ngolwazi lwabo ngokuzonwabisa;
- ababambe ngokuzithemba, bahlala bekhokheli kunye "nomphefumlo wenkampani";
- bahluke ngobomi bethemba kunye nenjongo. Ngelo xesha, abazange bawubambelele ngombono wabo, bahlala bebukhulu kwaye banamathele.