Ubomi bomfazi oyingozi luluhlu lweentlungu. Wonke umfazi omhle uyamkhumbuza ukuba indalo ayisoloko inomusa. Isibuko ngasinye sihleka. Amadoda ayiboni. Isohlwayo ayinakongeza ... Yeka! Ngaba kunjalo?
Ubuhle obungaphandle - enye yezona zinto zifutshane kwaye ziphikisana kakhulu, kodwa abambalwa abasetyhini abazijonga bengakhange banomdla, baya kuqinisekisa le nyaniso. Makhe sicinge ngento eyenza abafazi abangenakuchukumisayo bangabonwa ngabanye. Ngaba kubi (ngombono wakhe) intombazana ukuba ilungiselele ubomi kwaye ifunyenwe ngumfana oya kumthiwa ngumhle.
Yintoni enokuyenza kumantombazana ambi?
Khumbula abo basetyhini abanemigangatho engafanelekanga, kodwa banciphise kwaye baqhubekile ukuqhuba amadoda amaninzi. ICleopatra, umfanekiso wayo kwimali yamandulo, ifana nesimo sekhozi. U-Anna Boleyn, oye wahlulwa yi-polydacty. Amadoda afana neGala - i-muse yeDali? U-Lisa Minnelli, owayengumlindi, u-Barbara Streisand, uSara Jessica Parker, ekugqibeleni. Bonke abanonembeza esicacileyo banokukhalaza bonke ubomi babo kwisibuko. Ungamangaleli ubuso bakho ngenxa yokuhluleka. Makhe sijonge ngendlela entsha.
Unenhlanhla. Uhlala ngexesha apho imigangatho yobuhle ichithwa kwimbali. Abantu bafunda ukubona obunzulu, kwaye abaninzi abayili befashini bazisa kwiimodeli zepalimu ezingenakuze zenzeke kuye eminyakeni elishumi edlulileyo. Kutheni le nto ibuhlungu, ibonakala imantombazana, inamehlo. Ziziphi iziqheno? Impendulo ilula - ubuhle bayo obukhethekileyo.
- Hlalani phambi kwesibuko. Cinga ukuba kutheni ucinga ukuba uyingozi. Kutheni ungeke ube ngowomnye walabo bafazi abanobuqhetseba obunqabileyo buchaphazela ngaphantsi kobuhle? Khumbula: amantombazana ambi akakho. Kukho amantombazana angonwabileyo. Amantombazana amahle kunye nabangendawo yindibano.
- Jonga impilo yakho. Ibuhle. Yithande umzimba wakho ukuze ibuyisele kwakhona. Ibhinqa eliphilileyo litsala amadoda,
- Ukuba ujamelana neephene ezingenelelo ngoncedo olulodwa luya kunceda, uqondise imizamo yakho ekuphuhliseni umphefumlo. Ubuhle obugqibeleleyo buba buhlungu ngokukhawuleza, buhlala phezu kwendawo kwaye abuyithandi umntu ixesha elide (ubuncinci, emva kokuwuthabatha). Ubuhle obuvame ukukhanya okanye ukuhlaba ngaphakathi ngaphakathi lukhangele ngakumbi. Kwaye igalelo layo lide kakhulu.
- Sebenza ngezwi lakho. Ilizwi isona sixhobo esinamandla kakhulu sokukhohlisa. Ungabhalisela iikhosi ezizodwa okanye uqeqeshe i-timbre enhle ngokuzibhalela kwi-dictaphone. Landela utyesho. Ukuhleka, kunokwenzeka.
- Ukumkela umvuzo. Emva kokufunda enye incwadi enomdla (ukwenza igalelo ebuhleni bomphefumlo), musa ukukhawuleza ukuyifaka kwi-shelf. Beka le ncwadi entloko yakho kwaye uhamba ngeenxa zonke kwendlu, ujabulele ubukumkani.
- Dlala ngefowuni. Imimoya emihle, iphunga lomzimba ococekileyo, ococekileyo unama-pathogens kakhulu. Khumbula uCleopatra, owawucinga ukuba unuka njengenye yeemfihlelo zakhe eziphambili waza wanciphisa iipalals ze roses ngenqanawa eyayiqhube uMark Antony.
- Ukuphuhlisa inkcazo. Izambatho ezintle, izixhobo ezikhethiweyo ngobuchule - ubuso obuhle abuyi kusindisa, ukuba umniniyo akwazi ukuzithoba kwiingubo.
- Fumana ihobby. Ewe, ukuzijonga kwisibuko kunye nokulila kunomsebenzi, kodwa kukho izinto ezininzi kwihlabathi eziza kwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi, kwaye
kuthetha, kuya kunika ngakumbi ukukhanya emehlweni akho. Khumbula oko okuthandekayo u-Audrey Hepburn uthe ngokukhawuleza kwamehlo - oko kukuhle emehlweni abo. - Yenza okulungileyo. Kuhle ubuhle. Okulungileyo kunika ubungqina ebusweni ngexesha, kuba kwenzeka ukuba ubone abafazi abathandekayo bebudala, ubuso babo buhlotshiswe ngobubele? Awukwazi ukuqiniseka ukuba ebusheni babo bebuhle. Akukho bhinqa elibi. Ukuba umntu ucinga ukuba uyingozi, kuthetha ukuba omnye wenu unomphefumlo ombi.
- Uthandane nawe. Yonke imihla, khangela isizathu sokuba uhlale uthandana nawe. Jabulela kwimpumelelo yakho.