Ubume bezenhlalakahle zomntu bubonisa ukuba indlela ephakamileyo emphakathini ihlala ngumntu. Oku akusiyo inkcazelo yomsebenzi: isimo somntu sinokuhluka ngokwahluka kwesini, iminyaka, isimo somtshato okanye ubugcisa. Esi sikhundla kwizinga lentlalo alinakucacisa kuphela indawo yomntu, kodwa kunika amandla kunye nemisebenzi ethile. Kulo lonke uluntu, banokuhluka.
Indlela yokuchonga isimo sezentlalo?
Akuyimfuneko ukucinga ukuba umntu ngamnye unesimo esithile sentlalo. Ngamnye wethu unemibandela emininzi ngexesha elifanayo, elixhomekeke kwinkqubo abaxela kuyo. Ngokomzekelo, isimo senkosikazi sentlalo sinokuthi sininzi-eceleni: yena, umzekelo, unomfazi, unina, intombi, udade, umqeshwa, inkampani, umKristu kunye nelungu lombutho. Ubungakanani bemiqathango kuthiwa yi-status setting. Ukususela kumzekelo ongentla, sibona ukuba yintoni echaza isimo sezenhlalakahle: le imeko yomtshato, kunye nemibono yenkolo, kunye nomsebenzi wobugcisa, kunye nezinto ezithandayo, njl njl.
Njengomthetho, umntu ngokwakhe unquma isikhundla sakhe senzululwazi-ntlalo, kodwa oku kuchaphazelekayo yiqela apho abanye abantu bachongwa khona, kwindawo yokuqala. Ukongezelela, kunokwenzeka ukutshintsha isimo sezenzo zomntu: umzekelo, sitshintsha isimo sethu xa sifunda imfundo ephakamileyo, sakha intsapho, sifumane umsebenzi omtsha, njl.
Iintlobo zemimiselo yoluntu
Kukho iintlobo ezimbini ezibalulekileyo zezikhundla zabantu kwizinga lezentlalo: ifunyenwe kwaye imiselwe (izalwe) imeko yezenhlalakahle. Iyokuqala yazo ibonakaliswa yinto umntu azuza ngayo kwinkambo yobomi bakhe: izinga lemfundo, imbono yezopolitiko, umsebenzi, njl. Isikhundla esinqununu sezenzo yinto enikwe umntu ngokwemvelo: ubuzwe, ulwimi, indawo yokuzalwa, njl.
Nangona kunjalo, akusiyo yonke imimiselo yentlalo yabasetyhini kunye namadoda ahlolwa ngokulinganayo ngabanye. Abanye babo bahloniphekile, kwaye abanye-ngokuchaseneyo. Ubukhulu bobukhosi buxhomekeke kwimimiselo enjengobunene benkonzo ethile yentlalo kunye nenkqubo yexabiso elisebenza kulolo luntu.
Ukongezelela, kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeemeko zentlalo: umntu kunye neqela. Isimo somntu sisikhundla kwinqanaba elincinci labantu, apho umntu asebenzisana rhoqo. Ngokomzekelo, eli qela linokuba yintsapho, abasebenzi okanye inkampani yabahlobo. Njengomthetho, uzimisele ngokuziphatha kunye neempawu ezahlukahlukeneyo.
Ubume beqela bubonisa umntu njengelungu leqela loluntu elikhulu. Oku kubandakanya isimo somntu
Ngokuxhomekeke kwimo yezenhlalakahle, umntu ulungisa ukuziphatha kwakhe. Umzekelo, ekhayeni indoda yindoda nomyeni, kwaye iyaziphatha ngokufanelekileyo. Kwaye emsebenzini, uprofesa kunye notitshala, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Ngokuxhomekeka kwindlela umntu ahambelana ngayo ngokufanelekileyo ngenye indlela, ukhuluma ngokukwazi kwakhe ukufeza indima yakhe yentlalo. Yingakho kukho amagama anjengokuthi "oyingcali ontle", "ubaba omubi", "umhlobo obalaseleyo" - konke oku kuluphawu loluphawu. Kwaye omnye nomnye ofanayo unokukwazi ukujamelana neentlobo zabo zentlalo, kutheni kungabi "kubi" kwimiba ethile kwaye "kuhle" kwenye.