Izakhono ezisisiseko zentsana ezi-4
Ngexesha leenyanga zokuqala, abazali bayakwazi ukubandakanyeka kwisigqi esitsha sobomi, ubomi bemihla ngemihla buya kucwangciswa ngakumbi, kwaye umama omncinci usenakho ukulungelelanisa usuku lwakhe. Nangona i-karapuz encinci sele sele ikwazi ukufumana ubuninzi bezakhono ezinokuthi ziqwalaselwe ngempumelelo yakhe yokuqala. Kufanelekile ukufumanisa oko umntwana kufuneka akwenze kwiinyanga ezi-4:
- Usana olulele emhlane luphakamisa intloko kunye namagxa, njengokungathi uzama ukuhlala phantsi;
- Abantwana basuka emilenzeni yabo, belele emathubeni abo, njengokungathi bazama ukukhahlela;
- Ngalesi sizukulwana, i-carapace iguqulwa ngasemva nangemuva;
- umntwana uyabaqaphela abantu abahlala bebonwa, ngokukodwa kuzo zonke iindidi eziya kumama;
- uqala ukuvakalisa izandi ezithile;
- Unomdla emzimbeni wakhe, umzekelo, ubheka okanye adibanise izandla zakhe emlonyeni wakhe;
- uthabatha umdlalo onomdla kuye;
- vala ngezwi, ubahlukanise nabantu abangabazi;
- uphendule kwigama.
I-Kid isele ibone ukwesaba, intukuthelo, uvuyo, ukumangaliswa. Sele sele akwazi ukuseka ubudlelwane obunobangela. Ngoko, xa umntwana ebona isifuba sikamama, ujonge phambili ekudleni.
Kwiinyanga ezi-4 umntwana uyamemeza ngokukhawuleza, ehleka, kwaye kwimeko yezihlobo kubonisa ubunzima beentlobo (uzonwaba, uhambisa izandla kunye neenyawo).
Yintoni emele isilumke?
Ngenxa yokuba zonke iintsana zizodwa, kuyaqhelekileyo ukuba i-crumb ithola ezinye izakhono emva kwexesha elidlulileyo. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko kunokwenzeka ukuba ufune ingcebiso ngugqirha. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuba umama uya kuqaphela ukuba umntwana akenzi oku kulandelayo kwiinyanga ezi-4:
- ayibonisi imvakalelo kwabanye abantu;
- Musa ukubamba izinto;
Ungaguquki kwisisu sakho, ulele emhlane wakho; - Ukuba udibanisa izibonda zokulala emqolo emva, intloko yakhe ibuyele.
Abanye oomama banomdla kwizinto ezinokuthi umntwana usenokuqala ukuzenza ezinyangeni ezi-4, ekubeni ukuphuhliswa kwabantwana abanjalo kuhlukile. Konke kuxhomekeke kwithuba apho umntwana azalwa khona, ubunzima bayo nokuphakama kokuzalwa. I-karapuz iya kulahla emva kwemigangatho kwaye abazali akufanele bakhathazeke ngale nto, kodwa ukuba unina unemibuzo kunye nokukhathazeka, kungcono ukubonisana nodokotela.