Bonke abafazi besini esifanelekileyo bafuna ukuthanda amadoda. Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba abafazi bafuna amadoda ukuba afune into engcolileyo kubo. Akunjalo, abafazi abasetyhini abayi kuze kube yinto engcolileyo okanye efikelelekayo. Abafazi bezesondo baba yizinto zokubonga, ukukhanga, zilandelwa ngeengqungquthela, zilandelwa ziincoma. Ubundlobongela besini bufezekiswa ngokusebenzisa iinjongo eziqhelekileyo zengqondo yezesondo.
Psychology of sexuality
Ngesihlandlo sokuqala uFrud uthetha ngesi sihloko esingathandekiyo. Ngokombono wakhe, ubulili bubeka isiseko sobomi kunye nengqondo. Wachaza ulwalamano oluphakathi kohlobo lobuntu kunye neengongoma ezigqithisileyo, ezibonisa kwiingcoko zakhe kwi- psychology yesini . Wayekwazi ukwakha utyalo lwabantu, olubizwa ngokuba yi "System-Vector Psychology." Ulwabiwe ezinye iimfihlelo zesini, ngokukodwa, imihlaba yesibhozo, edibene neenkqubo ze-mucous zomzimba. Le mimandla yimiba ephambili yezesondo.
Ingqondo yengqondo kaFreud ichaza iindawo ezine eziphantsi kunye ezine, ezichaza uhlobo lwesini:
- Imida engezantsi: ukukhulelwa, isilwanyana, isisulu, isidumbu.
- Imimandla engaphezulu: isandi, isibonakaliso, somlomo, i-olfactory.
Ulwazi lolo hlobo luya kunceda wonke umntu ukuba aqikelele indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo kunye nokuchonga ukuba kukufanele yini.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba imimandla engezantsi ijongene neemvakalelo, ukukhanga, ukunxanela kunye nothando . Yonke intokazi inesondo ngokwesondo, kodwa abaninzi banokuthanda ukuba lo bulili bobubonakaliso obukhulu. Ngoko ke, bazama iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokufunda ulwazi oluthe xaxa malunga nokuphuhliswa kwesondo kunye nokusetyenziswa kweendlela ezibonakalisiweyo.
Ukuphuhlisa ubulili besini
Umfazi ngamnye kufuneka akhumbule iingcebiso ezimbalwa kwesi sihloko:
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lilungiswe kakuhle, ligqoke kakuhle. Ibhinqa elithandayo ngokwengqiqo ligxininisa iingqungquthela zomfanekiso,
ukufihla ukungaphumeleli. - Eli bhinqa lumnandi kwaye kunye neendlela ezingafezekanga zinomdla omhle, ukuba uyazibukela aze aye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca.
- Inenekazi kufuneka ihlale imangalisa kwaye inomdla (makhe sithethe nje, inhlakaniphokazi yesibhakabhaka ngokubonakala kwe-chic ishushu kakhulu).
- Ibhinqa njengengonyama yongonyama idinga ukufunwa kwaye iingcinga malunga nayo yenza ukuba zikhangele ngakumbi.
Khumbula ukuba ukuziphatha ngokwesini kufuneke kuphuhliswe. Kwaye, okokuqala, yonke intokazi nganye kufuneka ikwazi ukuzithanda nokuhlonipha isidima sayo.