Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba ukuba kwakungekho kwintloni yakho yokuzalwa, yonke into ebomini yakho yayiye yaveliswa ngokuhlukileyo. Emva kwakho konke, ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yokungaqiniseki kwakho awubonakali uluvo lwakho, ungazikhuseli ukufaneleka kwakho, ungangeni ekuqhelaneni nabantu abanomdla. Kwaye kubonakala ixesha elide kwaye lusizi malunga nendlela ocinga ngayo ngokucacileyo imeko ephosakeleyo, ukuba kungenjalo ngenxa yeentloni , kukhokelela ekubeni uyaphuthelwa ngamathuba amaninzi ekudluleleni ... Ewe, yilexesha lokuba ucinge ngendlela yokulahla ihlazo.
Siqikelela ukuba kunokwenzeka
Okokuqala, kufuneka ufumane iphepheni kunye ipeni, isicwangciso sethu senzobulumko indlela yokujongana nentloni iqukethe umsebenzi obhaliweyo.
Chaza ezo meko xa uxinekile ngenxa yeentloni kunye nantoni ebangelayo:
- ukubonakala kwakho;
- lakho ilizwi;
- ulwazi lwakho;
- ukungathandabuzeki malunga nolwazi lweemvo zabo.
Ngeentloni, abantu abangaphandle bangeze batyala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba "babi" kwaye "bengakhathazeki" babonakala kuwe. Isizathu singaphakathi kwakho.
Sibhala iziqinisekiso, esiza kuzifunda eziliqela ngeentsuku, ngokuvakalayo nangokuzithemba:
- Ndiyakwazi ukuhlangabezana ngokulula neenjongo zam, iiminqweno, amaphupha, ukuziqonda;
- Ndiqinisekile;
- Ndiphumelele;
- Ndingumhle;
- Ndilula ukuthetha;
- Ndithembele kum.
Ukuqinisekiswa kufuneka kuqulethe oko uzimisele ukukwenza. Bamele benze njengengcebiso-ngokwabo.
Yakha ileyibhile yakho
Ihlazo neentloni zikhokelela ekubeni abantu abanakukwazi ukuqonda ubuchule bakho, ubuchule, izakhono ngokupheleleyo. Uze uzifihla kwaye ungazibonisi ngenxa yeentloni. Ngako oko, ukuze udale "inqumla" efanelekileyo kwiintloko zabanye yenza oku kulandelayo:
- soloko ugcina umqolo wakho ngqo, amaqebunga asasazeka;
- Ilizwi lakho akufanele lidumise, lithethe kancane;
- Khangela ubuso kumnxibelelwano;
- Bonisa amandla akho;
- sebenza kumntu obuthathaka.
Ngokubhekiselele kwizwi, ukunyameka nokujonga - kufuneka usebenzise ezi zakhono ekhaya phambi kwesibuko. Amandla akho aza kuqala ukubonakalisa ngokwemvelo, ngokukhawuleza ukuba uqonde ilizwi, jonga, ukubeka phambili , kunye neendlela ezifunekayo zokusebenza. Ukuba awuyithandi isibalo sakho-uyilungise, okanye uzithobe uze uzithande ngokuba ungubani. Ukuba awuyithandi isitayela sakho - silungise, i-hairstyle - yenza, hamba-funda ukuhamba ngendlela oyithandayo. Kulula kakhulu ukukhalaza ngeentloni kunye nokungaphumeleli kwakho kunokuzilungisa ngokusebenza kwakho.