Ukuqhaqhaqhafaza njengokuthi "ukuthandwa-akuthandi" akushiyi ubomi bobhinqa, nangona xa ubushushu buphelile, kwaye iipalals ze-daisy zange zange zithathwa njengomthombo wenyaniso. Umbuzo wendlela yokuqinisekisa ubungqina beemvakalelo zihlala zifanelekileyo.
Indlela yokuvavanya iimvakalelo zomntu kunye nokuba kungcono ukuba ungenzi
Phakathi kobunzima beengcebiso onokukuva malunga nale nto, ukuba kukho ezininzi ezininzi ezingenanto. Phakathi kwabo kukho into engathandabuzekiyo, engafanele ithathelwe.
- Buza ngqo. Ukuba umntu akayiqondi isizathu sokuba uya kukwazi oku, akayi kukuxelela nto. Kwaye, nokuba kunjalo, ukuba unokukuxelela ngokuthe ngqo, wayenokwenza oko! Oku kuthetha kuphela ukuba akayi kuziva oku, okanye akakakulungeli ukuthetha. Ukunyuka kunye nemibuzo akuyimfuneko.
- Buza abahlobo abaqhelekileyo. Okokuqala, ibonakala ingenangqiqo, kwaye okwesibini, ukubandakanya amaqela emithathu kwintsebenziswano - ihlala izisa iingxaki. Akwanele, ngaluphi uhlobo olu lwazi oluya kufumana umntu: banokumxelela ukuba uhamba ngobuqhayisa ngothando, oko kuya kubonakala kukunciphisa umdla wakhe. Ukongezelela, ezinye iimeko ezinokuthi zenzeke, ngoko musa ukukhawuleza ukubuza.
- Ukutyelela umninimzi-mthengi kwaye ngokukodwa-ukuziqiqa ngokuzimeleyo. Namhlanje, abaxeli beengcali ezinzima kunzima ukufumana phakathi kwenani elikhulu labakhonkethi nabakhohlisi, abathi ngemali yakho baya kuthetha yonke into ofuna ukuyiva. Uziqhelanisa kwaye unethemba lokuba umphumo onyanisekileyo ufana nokwehlisa i-appendicitis kwisikhokelo sonyango. Sekunjalo, kukufanelekile ukushiya umlingo kubaqeqeshi, kuba awukwazi ukuthembela ngeziphumo ezinjalo.
Kuzo zonke iindlela zokuvavanya umntu ukuba abe nemvakalelo, kungcono ukhethe ngaphezulu kokuchanekileyo nokuchanekileyo, kunokuchitha ixesha kwizinto ezinjalo ezingenamsebenzi. Musa ukunyanzelisa ubomi-ukubona ukuba umntu uvakalelwa njani.
Ukuvavanya njani iimvakalelo zomntu?
Okokuqala, masibuyele ekutsaleni nasekuboneni. Nantsi yonke into ilula, kwaye akuyimfuneko ukuba ube yingcali yengqondo yokuqonda into ethile.
- Ukuba umntu ufuna ukuba kufuphi nawe, unokubuza imibuzo, unomdla ebomini bakho, uzama ukuba khona rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka - umlinde. Lo ngumqondiso omhle kakhulu, kwaye ngaphandle kokuba umkhumbuze umtshakazi wakhe, mhlawumbi uthanda kakhulu nawe.
- Ukuba umntu uyayinyamekela imicimbi yakho - lo ngumqondiso omkhulu. Uya kukutyelela xa ugula, unike isiqhamo seentyatyambo ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa, uya kuba nexhala xa efumanisa ngokuhamba kwakho okanye uhambo loshishino. Iimangalisa ezikhawuleza kunye nezipho zithetha okufanayo. Ukuba oku akunjalo uthando, ngoko unomdla omkhulu kuwe.
- Ukuba indoda ihlala ikuhlukanisa, ikuxelela ukuba unconywa, izaziso ezincinci kwiinguqulelo okanye iimpahla - yinto ebalulekileyo. Indoda ongenomdla kuyo nje ayiyi kukukhumbula ngezi nkcukacha ukuze ubone utshintsho.
- Ufumanisa ukuba uyazi kakhulu ngawe kwaye uyakhumbula. Ukuba umntu uyazi iinombolo zakho zeefowuni ngentliziyo, yonke imihla ehambelana nawe, umbala wakho owuthandayo, njl. - kuthetha, awunamdla kuye.
Siyavuma, silungele ukukhumbula into ethile kwimeko apho le ngcaciso ibalulekile kuthi. - Ubamba amehlo kuye. Uyamkela, kungakhathaliseki ukuba wenza ntoni. Ngokuqhelekileyo unamahloni xa uwela amehlo akho, kwaye uyabasusa. Kukhangeleka uphawu oluthile lwenzala kuwe.
- Uyabona umona emehlweni akhe, ngamanye amaxesha ngezenzo. Akayithandi xa uthetha nabanye abantu, nokuba awukho mntu kuye. Lo ngumqondiso ocacileyo wonyango olukhethekileyo kuwe.
Ukudibaniswa kwemininzi yale miqondiso, njengomthetho, ibonisa ukuba lo mntu uyakuthanda ngokwenene. Kwaye ukuba kuvela ukuba uqala ukuphulaphula umculo owakutsho njengokuba uyithandayo, okanye ufunda iincwadi ozithethileyo, kuyimzamo ecacileyo yokuthetha nawe, ukudala umdla oqhelekileyo. Zininzi zale ngcebiso ziyakunceda kumbuzo wokujonga ukuba ngaba iimvakalelo zangaphambili zihleli.