Ukuvakalelwa kweengqondo kunye nengqondo ngexesha lezesondo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zamadoda nabasetyhini bahlukileyo. Ukuchonga ukuba zeziphi iimeko ezithandwa ngabantu abalala embhedeni, kwaqhutyelwa uninzi lwadliwano-ndlebe, apho amadoda angamaxesha ahlukeneyo kunye nezinga lezenhlalakahle athathe inxaxheba. Kufuneka kuthathelwe ukuba izinto ezininzi ezithandwayo kumabhinqa amadoda namabhinqa ahlangene, awanako ukuvuya.
Yintoni ebangela ukuba amadoda afane?
I-Sexologists ithi abantu bathanda kwi-posttima postures efanelana nabo ngokomzimba. Ichaphazela ukhetho kunye nemvelo, umzekelo, ukuba umntu uphambili ebomini, ngoko ulala naye ufuna ukulawula. Ndiyabulela uphando, kwakunokwenzeka ukufumanisa iingxaki ezithandwa kakhulu.
Ziziphi izikhundla abantu bathanda kakhulu:
- Isikhundla esithandwa kakhulu sisitayela sezinja . Kule ndawo le ntokazi ihamba kuzo zonke ezine, kwaye indoda ikhona emva kwayo. Esi sikhundla sikwenza uvumele ukulawula ubukhulu kunye nokukhawuleza kokuhamba. I-sexologists ikholelwa ukuba uthando lwale ndawo lubangelwa kukuba umntu uthanda ukulawula abafazi.
- Mhlawumbi, abaninzi baya kumangaliswa ukuba uluhlu olubhekiselele kwizinto ezinokubangela ukuba amadoda alala embhedeni, isithunywa sevangeli , esithandwa ngabantu abaninzi, siya kukhankanywa. Kule nkalo, le ndoda ibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ababini abalingani banokubeka isantya. I-Sexologists ithi amadoda akhetha oku, kuba bangabonisa iimvakalelo zabo nothando , kuba ivumela ukuba iqabane libonane nemizwelo kunye nokumanga.
- Ukufumana oko kubonakala njengamadoda ngexesha lesondo, awukwazi ukusilela ukubeka ingqalelo kwenye indawo ethandwa kakhulu - umfazi ophezulu . Amadoda ebantwini kulo myalelo wokuba bangakwazi ukuphumla baze bahlekise ngokubukela ukuhamba komfazi. Kwisini esilungileyo, esi sikhundla sithatha indawo yokuqala kwindawo yokuthanda intando. Kuyafaneleka ukukhumbula enye inguqu ethandwayo yolu hlobo lokuhlala. Eli bhinqa liphezulu, kodwa izidumbu zitholakala kufuphi, ezikuvumela ukuba uwanga uze ucinezele.
- Isikhundla sokubambisa , kufakwe kwakhona uluhlu lwezinto ezibangelwa ngokwesini, abantu abathandayo. Okokuqala, oku kubhekisela ekubeni ingcinezelo yabalingani isuswe kunye, ngoko ke ungafaki umzamo omkhulu. Ukongeza, indoda kunye nomfazi bakhululwa ngezandla, ngoko banokunyamezela.
Ungesabi ukuthetha nomntu okhethiweyo kwizihloko ezithandanayo, ukufumanisa malunga nokukhetha kwakhe kwaye uziphumeze ebhedini.