Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, phambi kobhinqa eliqhelekileyo, umbuzo uvela - indlela yokutshata ngokuphumelelayo? Kwaye kwinqanaba elithi "umtshato ophumelelayo" intombazana nganye inentsingiselo yayo: kwabanye, lo ngumyeni ocebileyo, abanye - abanomdla kwaye banomdla, okwesithathu - okhutheleyo kunye noqoqosho, okwesine - ohlakaniphile kunye neetalente, kumntu ongaphandle. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto kwaye ayikwazi ukuba yinto enye kubo bonke, kodwa kukho imigaqo-siseko evakalayo ekuncedeni ukufumanisa umyeni osemgangathweni aze amlethe kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa.
"Ndifuna ukutshata ngempumelelo!"
Amabhunga "indlela yokutshata ngokuphumelelayo" gcwalisa i-intanethi namaphepha amaphephancwadi athile. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuluhlu lwezinto ezonwabileyo. Yaye inyaniso iyingozi kakhulu, kuba iphakamileyo iimfuno zomlingane onokuthi, kunzima kakhulu ukuyifumana. Akukho namadoda afanelekileyo. Kukho iindidi ezimbini zamadoda omtshato ongeyinconywa ngokubanzi-iipasasitic pathological and alcoholics. Bonke abanye - umthandi. Kodwa ukuba uzimisele ngokuzikhethela: Ndifuna ukutshata ngempumelelo, ukuba sele sele uzimisele ukuba ungubani umntu omele uyisebenze, wenze isenzo ngokuqinisekileyo nangenjongo, ungakhangeli ukuhluleka kwaye ungayeki.
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze kukuba ufumane indawo apho izilwanyana ezikuyo zidibanisa iimfuno zakho. Khumbula uLududla kwi-movie "UMoscow akakholelwa kwiinyembezi," efuna ukuba inxalenye yelayibrari. Nangona umlingiswa ungumntu ongekho, kodwa wakhetha inqubo yokufumana umyeni. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu oshishino ocebileyo uza kubonakaliswa kwigumbi lokudlela elincinci, kwaye umntu onentloni ehlakaniphile - kwi-nightclub elite. Nangona ngoku, mhlawumbi, kuchanekile ukuba ungayi kwilayibrari, kodwa ukuthengiswa kwemoto, apho ungabuza khona umntu omncinci othenga "i-Bugatti": "Unganditshela indlela umgcini weengxaki ehluke ngayo kwi-injection?" Kufanelekile ukungayinaki indlela endala nebubele yokwazisa ngoncedo lwabahlobo nezihlobo.
Ngethuba lethu, umbuzo othi "njani ukutshata ngokutshata" uya kuxazululwa ngoncedo lwe-Intanethi. Ukutshatyalaliswa kweendawo eziqhawule umeryano. Uninzi luvela ngaphandle. Kodwa, usebenzisa izixhobo ze-intanethi, akusiyo into engafanelekanga ukuba: Iifoto ayisoloko ihambelana nokubonakala kwangempela kwendoda, i-oligarch yeoli inokuba yinto engeyomsebenzi onxilisayo, kwaye umdlali we-Canadian romantic actor is paranoiac. Yaye kuba abaxhaphaza umtshato i-Intanethi yinqanaba legolide! Ngako-ke musa ukukhawuleza ukuthatha izilingo ezilingayo kwaye ujonge phambili umtshato ophumelelayo, de udibana nomntu kwaye ungaba ngu-100% uqinisekisile ukuba ngubani na othi utsho. Kwaye ukuba "i-millionaire" ikucela ukuba ubole imali engama-$ 300 ukuthenga ihotele eMiami, uyixoshe ezintanyeni ezintathu.
Kwiqabane elingaziwayo lingabonakali kakhulu imeko yeso sondlo, ubuninzi bayo ubunako. Kungenzeka ukuba uphumelele ukutshata umfundi ohluphekileyo, oza kuthi emva kweminyaka embalwa abe ngumlawuli webhanki, kwaye angaphumeleli-ukuba ngumntu olahlekelwa yimali osusa ifa likaPapa. AmaGosa ngokuqhelekileyo abe ngabatshatileyo.
Indlela yokubeka ingqalelo yindoda? Kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangaphi abantu abathi into ephambili kumntu ngumphefumlo, amadoda ahlelwe ngendlela yokuba baqale bajonge ukubonakala. Umfazi ococekileyo, onobuhle kwaye onxibileyo othanda ukugqoka unxibelelekile ukuba athande, angabonakali ngengubo, nangona ehamba ngeengubo ezibiza.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafazi bayabonisana nabavumisi beenkwenkwezi abacebisa unyaka ophumeleleyo kunye nosuku lomtshato. Nangona kunjalo, ukubhula ngezinkanyezi kuyindlela elula yokulungisa ingxaki "yokutshata ngokuphumelelayo". Eyona ndlela isebenzayo ngakumbi - umtsalane wakho, inzentlalo kunye nokukwazi ukuthetha. Esi siqinisekiso sokuba uya kukwazi ukutshata ngokuphumelelayo kwaye ugcine umtshato wakho.