Ngokuqhelekileyo amantombazana abancinci abancinci abhekana nombuzo wendlela yokufumana umfana ukuba ayeke ukutshaya. Yaye ingxaki ayikho nje ukuba umkhuba onobungozi uchaphazela impilo yabo bonke abakubonayo. Amantombazana angaphezulu kakhulu ayaqonda ukuba ingozi enjalo indoda ayikho nhlobo. Kwaye ngoko umbuzo wokuphelisa umlutha we-nicotine awunakuze ulahlekelwe yimpumelelo.
Ndicinga ukuba abaninzi baya kuvuma nombono wokuthi i-cigarettes ingenye yezilungo ezimbi kakhulu namhlanje. Ngokuqhelekileyo lo mkhuba uhlala ungqongqo kwaye ungelula ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo somntu kuwo. Nangona kunjalo le nto iyona nto. Yeka ukunyamezela nokunyamezela ukutshaya utshaya, ukuhlaziya ukukhuseleka komntu kule ndawo - yilapho ikhona ingcamango ephambili yendlela yokwenza umntu onqabileyo ukutshaya.
Nangona kunjalo, kukho iindlela zokunceda umfana ayeke ukutshaya, ancede umzimba wakhe unqobe lo xho mekeke. Makhe sicinge ngeendlela eziphambili, ezibonakalisiweyo:
- Ugwayi wecomputer. Othandwa kakhulu namhlanje. Iingcamango malunga naye ziyahluka, kodwa ininzi ndiva kuphela ezilungileyo. Abaninzi bancedisa ukunciphisa umthamo we-nicotine ogqityiweyo, kwaye ke uyishiye ngokupheleleyo. Into ephambili kuyo - ukusuka kumkhwa wokungalahla "inkunzi" evela kwibhaluni.
- Incwadi kaAlan Carr "Indlela elula yokuyeka ukutshaya". Kwakhona, ithetha ixesha elide kwaye liqinisekisiwe. Uninzi lwabahlobo bam landixelela izinto ezintle kakhulu: ukufunda incwadi - uyeka ukutshaya. Izizathu zokungakholelwa ilizwi andinalo, ngoko uzame! Into ephambili kwesi sixhobo kukuba ube nomonde kunye nenkosi.
- Ukuthotyelwa. Le ndlela iza kusebenza xa umntu wakho ngokwakhe ufuna ukuyeka ukutshaya. Ukusabalalisa imeko ndawonye kunye neeshefu, kucetyisa ukucwangcisa nokunciphisa inani lokubhema i-cigarettes enye ngeveki. Ngalo ndlela, into ephambili ayikuyihlambalaza, ukuba akakwazi ukuyeka ukutshaya ngokukhawuleza. Sekude kwaziwa ukuba ubugwenxa buvelisa ubugwenxa nokuphendula okukhuselayo. Kwaye ngokuthatha inxaxheba ngokugqithiseleyo kule nto, unokuqala kuwe "nge-encrypted."
- Midlalo. Kukulungele abantu abayeka ukutshaya kwaye ngokubanzi kubantu. Iingcali zenzululwazi zibonisa ukuba umzimba, ngokuxinzeleleka kwengqondo rhoqo, ngokwawo uqala ukuvakala i-alamu kwaye ulahle i-cigarettes. Okokuqala uya kutshitshisa nge-inertia, ngoko-kunokuba angothuswanga, engayiqondi isizathu esenzayo, aze afune. Ezemidlalo kunika umntu kumntu, kwaye ukutshaya
ukuxoshwa ebomini njengento engenamsebenzi. Ngale ndlela, njengomfana oyeka ukutshaya, mhlawumbi owona mhle kwaye uncedo kakhulu.
Kodwa umbuzo oyintloko umfazi omele acinge ngawo kukuba umfana wakhe ufuna ukuyeka ukutshaya. Ukuba ewe, ke ukusuka kwicala lakho indlela efanelekileyo kukuncedisa kwaye akukho zihlazo kunye nokuhlambalaza. Yiba nomonde, uqonde ukuba kunzima kuye kunokuba kuwe. Inkxaso.
Ukuba umbuzo uvela "indlela yokwenza umfana ayeke ukutshaya", kuyafaneleka ukucinga malunga: ngaba kuyimfuneko? Mhlawumbi akunjalo nje? Mhlawumbi, kwindawo ethile kukho umfazi oza kummkela ngolu hlobo, kuba lona kuya kuba lukhulu. Cinga ngako.