Kwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa, ngenxa yokuthozama kwayo, ayikwazi nje ukuba ithande ingqalelo kwindoda eyithandayo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unika i-100%, uncede uncedo "iinqwelo ezinzima" ngendlela yokugqoka i-mini kunye ne-neckline, kwaye umfana akasaqapheli kwaye unqwenela ukuthetha kunye "namagundane asegreyini". Into enokuyenza kunye nendlela yokukhohlisa umntu uya kuxelwa kule nqaku.
Iziseko zokudlala ngothando
Okokuqala, kufuneka kucaciswe ukuba unelungelo lokuphumelela. Abasetyhini abaninzi balindele ukuba amadoda ngokwawo aya kubakhokela ingqalelo yabo, kodwa unokulinda kude kube ngumdala. Ngokomzekelo, ehleli kwi-cafe okanye kwiklabhu, kufuneka nje ukhangele umfana oyithandayo uze ubambelele imizuzwana emibini. Kuya kwanele ukummema kumdaniso. Ukudlala ngothando kuyisixhobo esinamandla kwaye ukuba akukho zakhono kulo mbandela, kufuneka bafunde. Ephantse kwi-coquette yesibini, kukho iimbini ezibini okanye ezintathu, kodwa iziqhenqa ezizikhukhumezayo, zikhuselekile.
Kubonakala
Unomdla kwizinto onokuyinyanzela indoda, ungazibandakanyi kwiingubo ezingabonakaliyo. Ewe, ukuba uceba ukumbambisa umntu ekulala, ingubo ephosakeleyo iya kwamkeleka. Abameli abaninzi abanesondo esomeleleyo bayavuma ukuba le ndlela isebenza phantse njalo. Kodwa ukuba umsebenzi - ukunyengisa nokubamba, ngoko kufuneka ugqoke ukuze loo mntu aphume kwindawo yokucinga. Ingqungquthela encinci ye-decollete okanye i-sklut ejikelezayo ende iyakwenza ngaphezu kweebhothi kunye nezifutshane ezimfutshane.
Ezinye iindlela
Ukuba zonke iinkalo zibandakanyekile, ukuya kutsho ekuncedeni ngomsebenzi, ukuba usebenza kunye naye, ngoko unokuzama ukukhwela umntu, ukumthobela. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa umdla kwamanye amalungu enesini esomeleleyo. Kubalulekile ukuvusa umoya wokukhuphisana kumntu, kuba ibhinqa eliyimfuneko kumntu wonke, liya kuyimfuneko. Akunqatshelwe
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu - intombazana kufuneka ibe nemihlali, ingakhathazeki, ihambe ubomi kunye nentloko yayo ephakamileyo. Akukho mntu uya kubeka ingqalelo kubafazi basemakhaya abathunjelwe ubomi bemihla ngemihla kunye nemicimbi. Ngendlela, le ndlela iya kukhethwa kwabo bafuna ukukhohlisa indoda esatshatileyo kwaye abazi ukuba bayayenza njani. "Zhenatiki" abafuni ukuphuma "emlilweni nasemlilweni", ngoko baya kuvuya ukuba nethuba lokuhamba ngaphandle kwemiphumo. Kubalulekile ukuba ubazise ukuba nabo bathanda ukuzihlaziya ngaphandle kokuqhubeka ngokuqhubekayo, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo baya ku-peck.