Ukhethe

Nsuku zonke sidibana nabantu abahlukeneyo, iimeko, singaziqapheli, sivavanye kwaye, ngokuqhelekileyo, asiyiyo imbono yethu, isimo sengqondo, kodwa ubandlululo olumiselwe uluntu.

Ubandlululo ludlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini babo bonke abantu. Zinefuthe ekuboneni, isimo sengqondo kwinto ethile, kumntu.

Imithombo yengqondo yokubandlulula ichaza ubandlululo njengesimo sengqondo somntu ngamnye, njl., Ngokusekelwe kubulungu bakhe kwicandelo elithile okanye iqela. Imithombo ephambili yobandlululo yintlalo yoluntu kunye nosapho lwabantu. Okokuqala, abazali bafaka umntwana ngengqondo, apho yakhe ingcinga yabanye, malunga naye. Ukukhula, umntu akahlaziyi ezinye iimbono ezibekwe ebuntwaneni, kwaye usetyenziswa ngobomi abadala, ngobudlelwane nabanye.

Iintlobo zokhetho

Kwintlalo, kuyaqhelekileyo ukuhlukanisa phakathi kweendidi ezahlukeneyo zolwaphulo:

1. Zesondo. Ubundlobongela obuphathelele kwisini. Le ngenye yezinto ezixhaphakileyo. Ngoko, ngokolu vavanyo, ukuxhatshazwa kwabantu besini kusetshenziselwa ukubhekisela kumqondo oqhelekileyo, ukunyaniseka. Ubandlululo lwezocansi luquka inkolelo yokuba amadoda aphumelele kwishishini okanye ukuba abasebenzi besifazane baqikelelwa ukuba baphantsi kunelo madoda.
2. Ubandlululo lweSizwe. Le ngxaki yentlalo-yengqondo, ebonakaliswa yinyani ephosakeleyo ngokubhekiselele kulunye uhlanga ukuya kwelinye. Unobandlululo olunjalo luhlobo lweendlela zokubonakalisa u-ethnocentrism. Benza imisebenzi yokuhlola. Ukusebenza kwabo kunceda ukugcina umgama woluntu phakathi kwabameli beentlanga ezahlukeneyo.
3. Ubudala. Ingxaki ngale ndlela yokubandlulula kukuba umntu uqondwa ngabanye kwi-prism yezinto ezingabonakaliyo, kuboniswe, umzekelo, kwinto yokuba abantu abaselula bakholelwa ukuba abantu abaneminyaka abakwaziyo ukubandakanyeka ekusebenzeni okusebenzayo, kwaye abadala abadala bakholelwa ukuba abatsha abantu abanakuxanduva.
4. Sekhaya. Ubandlululo olubhekiselele kwisimo sengqondo somntu kuye, ukubonakala kwakhe okanye ukuziphatha kwakhe (okuvela kuyo izakhiwo ezinzima), kwiziganeko (inkolo kwienkolelo, njl), ekudleni, njl.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba nayiphi na ibhinqa ngaphandle kokubandlulula, njengendoda, ibonakala ithandeka ngakumbi. Emva kokukholelwa kwiinkolelo ezahlukahlukeneyo, ukuthembela kwiinkolelo ezininzi kunye nokwenqaba ukwakhela umbono wendawo, umzekelo, ngokubhekiselele nakubuphi ubuzwe, umntu unokubukeka uyisidenge, umntu unokulahlekelwa ngumntu ngamnye.

Isizathu kunye nokubandlulula akuzange kube nesiseko esisisiseko sokuvela, ngokwemvelo, ingqondo yomntu, ukuqonda kucocekileyo, kodwa ngokuvumela iinkolelo ukuba zikhokele, umntu uhlambalaza imbono yakhe yehlabathi.

Xa umntu efunda ukugcina, qhathanisa ulwazi oluthatywayo, ucinge ngalo kwaye uluhlalutye, luqinise konke ngeempawu ezibonakalayo, kwaye ludibanise ngolwazi olukhoyo, umntu uya kwinqanaba eliphakamileyo lobomi - inqanaba lokucinga. Ubomi bakhe lukhululekileyo ekuthandweni.

Indlela yokukrazula ubandlululo?

Unokucima ingqondo yakho ngeendlela ezininzi:

1. Funda ukuhlula imbewu kumakhoba, ukuphuhlisa ukucinga, ukudibanisa ingqondo nemvakalelo.
2. Ukuphuhliswa kwengcinga (syncretic perception).
3. Musa ukuvavanya imicimbi, abantu. Ukugweba izigwebo zesigaba.
4. Ukuphuhlisa ukuguquguquka kokucinga.
5. Unako ukutshintsha ukugxeka kokuzigxeka.
6. Funda ukujonga ngokwenene ngombono wempumelelo ekuphuhliseni amakhono akho.
7. Ukuphuhlisa intuition yakho ngokuseka uqhagamshelwano lakho.
8. Funda ukuphulaphula ilizwi lakho langaphakathi.
9. Fumana amacandelo amnandi kwizinto ezimbi.

Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ukuphelisa ubandlululo, uhlambulule ukuqonda kwakho, isimo sakho sengqondo kwabanye, ngoko kuphucula ubuhlobo ebomini.