Yintoni kufuneka umntwana akwazi ukuyenza kwiinyanga ezi-7?

Ngethuba lokuqala kunyaka wokuphila, inkunzi ifunda ezintsha kwiintsuku zonke kwaye iphucula izakhono ezifundwa ngaphambili. Nangona bonke abantwana bahlukeneyo kwaye bahlakulela ngokungafaniyo, kukho imimiselo ethile yeminyaka ababelethwe ngayo abantwana, xa bavavanya ubuchule beemvuthu. Le ngcaciso iluncedo ukwazi nabazali, ukukhawuleza ugqirha ngugqirha kwilungu lomntwana kule ndawo okanye kuloo ndawo. Kule nqaku siza kukuxelela oko umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 kufuneka akwazi ukuyenza, ukuba ukuphuhliswa kwakhe kuhambelana ngokupheleleyo nemigangatho yeminyaka.

Yintoni enokuyenza umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7?

Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 sele benamakhono alandelayo:

• Ngokukhululeka bayaguquka, zombini ukusuka emva ukuya kwisisu, nakusisu kwisantya, kwaye ukwenze ngokukhawuleza kwindlela zombini;
• Ininzi yabantwana sele beyazi indlela yokunyuka kwinqanaba kunye nokuzonwabisa bayashintsha malunga nenyawo ukuya enyawo. Ukuba awunakanciphisa phantsi kwesibhedlele, ngoku sekuyisikhathi sokwenza, kuba i-crumb ingakwazi ukuwa lula kwaye ibenze nzima. Ngokuqhelekileyo, isikhalazo asiyona indawo ekhuselekileyo yokudlala imidlalo, kungcono ukushiya umntwana kwi-orna okanye phantsi;
• Ukuphuhliswa kwentombazana yentombazana kwiinyanga ezi-7 ihlala ibonakala ngokubonakala kwindlela yokuhlala phantsi ngokuzimeleyo kwaye igcine iqonde ngqo. Abafana kule minyaka bahlala behlala phantsi ngokwabo, nangona kukho ukungabikho. Ukongezelela, kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba umntwana usekwe, umqolo wakhe uya kuxhomekeka phambili;
• Ngexesha elifanayo, ekuphuhlisweni kwengane encinane malunga neenyanga ezi-7, ubuchule obutsha obonakalayo bubonakala - umntwana ufunda ukukhahlela. Njengomthetho, kule minyaka yobuantombazana ayihambeli indawo ukuya endaweni, kodwa amakhwenkwe, ngokuchaseneyo, akwenze ngokuqiniseka kakhulu. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baqala ukukhahlela emuva, kodwa ningakhathazeki, kungekudala umntwana wakho uya kuqonda indlela yokwenza okulungileyo;
• Uninzi lweenyanga ezisixhenxe ziqala ukubonisa umdla kumdla kwaye uzame ukutya kunye ne-spoon okanye ukusela kwindebe. Ewe, nangona oku kuvela kuba kubi kakhulu kubo, kodwa kuya kuthatha ixesha elincinci, kwaye umntwana uya kudla ngokulula ngokwakhe.

Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana kwinyanga yesi-7 yobomi

Iintsana zenyanga ezisixhenxe ziyabona ngokuqinisekileyo onke amalungu entsapho. Ingakumbi ngokuqinisekileyo i-crumb iqhotyoshelwe kumama okanye umntu ochitha ixesha elide naye. Abantu abangamaqhinga bazama ukuphepha umntwana, bajike kuye baze bafihle emva kweentsapho zabo.

Umntwana sele sele eqonda ngokucacileyo intonation, ngokukodwa ukuthintela okuhlukeneyo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokumkhathaza kakhulu. Inkwenkwana okanye intombazana eneminyaka eyisixhenxe inesibonakaliso esicacileyo ngokubonakalayo. Uyakuthanda ukuzibukela kwisibuko, enze zonke iintlobo ze-grimaces, ujonge iingxenye zomzimba wakhe, iimpahla kunye nokunye.

Phantse bonke abantwana abaneminyaka engama-7 bahamba ngayo yonke indlela. Ngentetho yabo esebenzayo, izinto ezinjengeelwimi "ha", "ma", "ba" kunye "pa" zivela. Nangona kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuqonda ukuba kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kwezi sixhenxe akukho mntwana onokuthetha igama lakhe lokuqala. Ukuba kwakubonakala kuwe ukuba umntwana uthewa "ngumama" okanye "ubaba", qiniseka, ngoko umncinci umane uqeqeshe izinto zakhe zokuthetha, kwaye engacacanga ngamazwi okuqala.

Yintoni yokufundisa umntwana kwiinyanga ezili-7?

Ukuze ufundise iimvumba izakhono eziyimfuneko, zama ukumkhuthaza ukuba athathe amanyathelo athileyo ngendlela enokwenzeka. Ngokomzekelo, beka amathoyizi akhe amathandayo ngandlela-thile, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana uzame ukukhahlela. Ngangoko kunokwenzeka ukuthetha nomntwana kwaye umfundise ukubonakalisa iifomopopoe ezahlukeneyo kwifom edlalwayo. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 ubudala sele ebonakalise indlela inja, i-pussy kunye nezinye izilwanyana "zithetha" ngayo.

Ukongezelela, umntwana oneminyaka engama-7 kufuneka ayenze rhoqo, oko kuthiwa "ukuhlalisa umama". Ukunyakaza kokunyuka kokukhanya kuza kunceda ukuphucula ukujikeleza kwegazi, oku luncedo kakhulu ekuphuhliseni kwengqondo kunye nokwenyama kweemvuthu. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, yenza okuzenzekelayo ukuzivocavoca, okuza kugqirha ugqirha.

Kwiimeko ezininzi, yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana kwiinyanga ezi-7 yiphumo yendlela abazali abajongene ngayo nayo. Zama nyanga zonke ukuvavanya iinjongo zokuphuhliswa kwonyana okanye intombi yakho kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kumncede ukuba azalise izikhelo kwiindawo ezithile.