I-Frivolity enye yeentlobo zokunganakwa. I-Frivolity inokuchazwa nangokungaqwalaselwa kakubi, ukungaqiniseki, umoya wokuziphatha. Ukuba uthe ngamagama alula, ngoko umntu akaqapheli ubunzulu bokuthatha izenzo zakhe, umele konke ngokubanzi, ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo.
Ukuba wena, njengoko ndacinga ukunyaniseka njengento ethile yeprank engenamacala, sasibambene kunye. Kwikhowudi yezobugebengu kukho amanqaku amaninzi malunga nokunyaniseka, babizwa nje ngokuba banganakwa. Ndincoma ukuqwalasela zonke iintlobo zengqondo kunye nemiphumo yazo, enokuchaphazela kakhulu ubomi bakho kunye nobomi babantu abakujikelezile.
Ubugebengu bobugebengu
Ulwaphulo-mthetho oluthile luyindlela yokwenyuka. Kwimeko enjalo, umntu ulindele isiphumo kunye nokuphuhliswa kweemeko ezenzeke ngephutha lakhe. Kodwa umntu akacingi ngazo zonke iinkcukacha, ubonisa umfanekiso kunye nemiphumo enokwenzeka ngokubanzi kwaye uthemba ukuba imeko ayiyi kuphuma kulawulo. Ukuba kulula, yimiphumo enjalo yezenzo zabantu awazange alindele, kwaye akazange afune ukuba zenzeke. Umzekelo wobuqhetseba obunobungozi kukufa komqhubi, oqhuba ngokukhawuleza, enethemba lokulawula kwakhe imoto kunye nokusebenza kwayo. Esikhundleni saloo mzuzwana, ufumanisa ukuba imoto ye-braking system ayisebenzi, ingabi nexesha lokugqithisa ngexesha ngaphambi kokuba uwele iinqwelo, ugoba umhambi.
Ukungabi namthetho
Uhlobo lwesibini lwenkohlakalo. Ngolu khetho, umntu akavumeli kuphela ukuvela kwayo nayiphi na imeko eya kuba yingozi kwabanye ngenxa yezenzo zakhe. Kodwa akayi kubona ingozi ebonakalayo kwizenzo zakhe, ezinokubangela ulwaphulo-mthetho. Oku kuthetha, umzekelo, ukuba umntu owenza izenzo ezithile akazange aqonde ingozi yezenzo zakhe kwimeko yongxamiseko. Imizekelo yaloo hlobo lokukhuphaza ingavumelekanga ukukhusela okukhuselekileyo kwishishini lokuvelisa elikuloo mzi. Ngenxa yephutha lomntu oyedwa, ukungenakwenzeka kungenzeka. Umzi wonke unokubandezeleka, umntu omnye kuphela akayikuxabisa yonke ingxaki kunye noxanduva lokwenza umsebenzi wabo.
Ukutshatyalaliswa okanye ukuchasene?
Oku ngasentla yimbono yokunyaniseka ukusuka kwinqanaba lombono, ngoku siphendukela kwingcaciso elula yabantu. Umzekelo, uthanda isitala esithulileyo sokushayela kwimoto, kwaye umhlobo / intombi yakho ikhetha ngokukhawuleza. Zama, zingqina kuye ukuba "uhamba ngokuthula - uya kuba ngaphezulu" ngcono? Oko ufuna ukutshintsha kuyo, into ongayithandiyo ngayo iyamkeleka kuye. Sitshintsha utshintsho, indlela yokuphila kunye nezinto ezithandwayo zomntu akunakwenzeka. Kutheni ungazitshintshi?
Akunakuthandi nonke, kodwa akuyi kuzama ukuguqula kwaye anikezele kuwe oko umhlobo / intombi intanda.
Kukho iindlela ezimbini kuphela: mhlawumbi abantu kufuneka bathathwe ngazo zonke iziphoso zabo, bangazami ukubopha phantsi kwabo, okanye bangaziqondi.
Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuphelisa oku? Kufuneka silinde ixesha - ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwabo bonke baya kuhlwaywa. Ndicinga ukuba ukuthotyelwa komthetho kungekudala okanye kamva kujezise umqhubi. Njengoko kuyaziwa, iziphumo ezingenangqiqo zifumaneka ngokungenakwenzeka kuzo zonke izenzo ezingenangqiqo, kwaye kwimeko apho lo mntu engayifunde nto - kakuhle ... ayikho ingqondo - jonga isikhuba.