"Thatha uxanduva lwamagama akho," "Yintoni ongenakuziphendulela," "Yiba noxanduva lwakho kwintsapho yakho" ... Ukungaxanduva kunye noxanduva ... Yintoni na? Kuba yintoni, ngubani na kutheni kufuneka iqhutywe? Uxanduva ngokwawo kwimvelo alukho - luyimveliso yomntu, umntu. Siyidala yona, siyidale, yinike ilungelo lokubakho kwaye lixabise. Akukho mntu uya kukwazi ukuthetha yintoni imbopheleleko, kuba ngamnye wethu ubeka ingcamango yayo ethile intsingiselo ethile. Nangona kunjalo, nangona kunjalo, uxanduva, ngokwenene, izibophelelo ezithile esizibambileyo okanye ezenzayo ngabantu abasijikelezile. Uxanduva lunye lwezinto ezixabisekileyo kunye ezibalulekileyo kuluntu, kunye nentlangano, ukuthintela nokukhuthaza.
Ukungabikho komsebenzi
Uluntu lwabantu banamhlanje lujongene nenani elikhulu leengxaki ezinkulu, eqinisweni, ingxaki yokungaxanduva. Oku kubonakala kwisizukulwana sethu, esiphila kuphela ngenxa yaso, izidingo zayo, ukungaxeli nje kuphela kubantu abangaziwayo, abangaziwayo, kodwa nakwizihlobo zabo, abantu abasondeleyo. Abantu abaninzi abanqweneli kwaye abazi ukuba kuthatha uxanduva kwaye baya kuba baninzi, bengenangqondo, bazinikezela kuphela iifom kunye neminqweno yabo.
Ingxaki yokungaxanduva - iingxabano kunye neengcamango
Ukuba sichaza igama elithi "ukungabi nxanduva", ke oku kuyimpawu yeempawu ezibandakanya ukungathandi ukuthabatha izibophelelo, ukungafuni ukuzifeza, umnqweno wokuphonsa uxanduva kwabanye abantu, kunye nokungakwazi ukugcina igama eliyithathiweyo. Lo mbhalo uzalwe ngokuthambekela komntu ukuyeka i shishini emva koko. Phantse wonke umntu uthanda ukuthatha ixesha, uguqula ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi. Ngokomphando, abaninzi abantu abazange baqale ukusebenza ngokukhawuleza. Uninzi lwabo lubhekisela kubantu abangenalo igunya. Unako, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubabizele abantu abaqulunqayo, kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba bafanelekile, aba bantu baxhomekekanga.
Ukungathembeki kwendoda
Imizekelo yokungabikho kwemfanelo, efumaneka kwintlalo yanamhlanje, ingabalwa ngonaphakade. Kwaye, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, kukho abafazi abaninzi abaqapheleyo kunamadoda. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho ukungabikho kwemfanelo komntu. Oku akumangalisi. Namhlanje, abaninzi abameli besilisa baye bazingca, bengabantwana, kwaye esi sizathu esona sizathu saloo manani ahlukeneyo esahlukanisa kwilizwe lethu. Akuqhelekanga ukuhlangabezana noomama abangatshatanga abafundisayo, banike abantwana babo, kaninzi bengenakuncedwa ngubaba ophilayo! Nsuku zonke, abantwana bafuna ukutya nokunyamekela, abakwazi ukulinda upapa ukuba baphakamise uxanduva kunye nokuqonda ubunzulu bezinto, izibophelelo ezenziwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo sinoxanduva lwabantu ababethebileyo, nangona kufike kwikati okanye inja, kungabhekiseli uxanduva lwabo bantu abaphathiswe nguThixo. Kwaye olu xanduva lwabasetyhini banakho amandla ... Le ngxaki enkulu yexesha lethu.
Ikhono lokuba noxanduva lweempazamo zabo kunye nokuphosa ngokuqinisekileyo kuyimfanelo ebalulekileyo, kokubili amadoda kunye nabasetyhini. Yaye ukuba umntu ngamnye uya kuzilandela kule cwangciso, angayi kuhluthwa kuphela ekuthathaka kwayo yonke imizuzu, kwaye asebenze ngokuhambelana nesazela kunye nezibophelelo ezenziwayo-ukuhlala kuluntu lwethu kuya kuba nzima.