Kukho abantu abambalwa abangesabi nantoni na. Omnye uloyiko ludala ubunzima obungabonakali ubomi, luvelisa iingxaki zomntu, umntu ufumana ubunzima obungacatshulwayo. Nangona kubonakala sengathi uzame zonke iindlela zokulwa nokuloyika, qwa lasela iingcebiso zesikhokelo sengqondo esivela kwihlabathi jikelele, esiza kukuxelela indlela yokulwa nayo.
Indlela yokufunda ukulwa noyiko?
Enyanisweni, kulula ukubekezelela ukwesaba kwakho. Enyanisweni, abaninzi abantu behlabathi benza oku: uhamba ngesitimela xa uyazi ukuba unesaba ukubhabha okanye ukuhamba ngokuhamba ngasese, ngebhasi, ngelixa uphephe i-metro.
Ukwesaba, ukukhula kwinto engafanelekanga, kunokunyusa umgangatho wobomi bakho, kwaye kwisengqondo kule ndaba kukho inani leencomo esihloko esithi "Indlela yokujongana noyiko": "
- Ndicelomngeni . Hlanganisa intlanganiso noyiko lwenu, okwenyaniso, yengqondo. Ukutshintshela kwindawo odibanayo, iintende zezandla zithukuthele kwaye zomile emlonyeni wakho. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kule: Musa ukwesaba umoya oye wenziwa ngoku. Uluhlu olulodwa kuphela: ukwesaba kufuneka kuhanjiswe ngokufanelekileyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani oku, zama ukutyhila le nkcazelo malunga nokwesaba kwakho ngehlazo. Le nqubo inceda ekunciphiseni.
- Ndiva konke . Ngaba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe ukuba umi phambi kweemoto ezivulekileyo kunye nokungafuni ukungena, kuba unqatshelwe yimvakalelo emibi? Okanye ingaba izazinzondo zithatha ingqalelo kwixesha elingalindelekanga kuwe? Kwiimeko ezinjalo kubalulekile ukungaziboni iingcinga ezimbi. Phinda uqwalasele zonke iingxaki kulo mzuzu wobomi. Vuma ukuba banakho. Ziyinxalenye yobomi bakho. Siyabonga kubo, niyaqina kwaye ngoko ke kulula ukulawula naluphi na ubunzima, ingozi.
- IInshshu . Vala amehlo akho. Khumbula, xa uvakalelwa kukugqithisa kwamandla, ukuziva unomdla olungenammiselo. Ngaphezu koko, khumbula ixesha loxolo lwengqondo noxolo. Ngaba badibana nawe ngenye into ebonakalayo okanye nesiganeko? Ukuba kunjalo ke, xa kukufa kwakhona xa uhamba kunye neloyiko elingenakulinganiseki, khumbula ezo zihlandlo zoxolo.
Indlela yokujongana noloyiko oluqhelekileyo?
- Indlela yokujongana noloyiko lokufa? Ukwesaba ukufa yinto engokwemvelo. Musa nje ukuxhoma kule nto. Ukuqonda ukuba yonke into ineempumelelo kweli hlabathi, uya kukwazi ukuyiqonda
yonke imihla, indawo yakho. - Indlela yokujongana noyiko lobumnyama? Uninzi lwexesha kufuneka lisetyenziswe elangeni. Ungazikhupheli ii-movie ezibuhlungu, izinto ezinomdla. Yiya egumbini elimnyama, vala amehlo akho uze ucinge ukuba izinto ozoyikwenayo azifuni ukuba ungendawo.
- Indlela yokujongana noloyiko lokugula? Cinga kwakhona isimo sakho sengqondo kwizifo. Yivalo lwakho loyiko, masithi, yenza izihlobo naye. Mqonde. Ungalibali ukuhlala apha kwaye ngoku, kwaye kungekudala okanye ngekamva. Qalisa ukuzithobela njengomntu onempilo.