Izimpawu ozithandayo umfana

Abantu abancinci abanamava amaninzi abesini esahlukileyo bahlala belahlekile kwaye abazi ukuba bahlolisise njani isimo sengqondo somntu othile. Ukongezelela, abameli beesondo ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko ezifanayo baziphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, nto leyo iqhubezela ngakumbi imeko yezinto. Kodwa kukho imiqondiso ethile oyithandayo umfana kwaye kubalulekile ukubheka ngokubanzi iinkcukacha.

Iimpawu zokuba uthanda umfana

  1. Nangona umntu osemncinci engathuli okanye enamahloni, unokuhlala eqonda ngokuziphatha kwakhe ngendlela ekuphatha ngayo. Ukuba ngamaxesha amaninzi umzimba uqhutyelwe kwicala lenu, iingalo nemilenze ayinqanywanga, kwaye imbonakalo ivulekile kwaye iyabonwa, ngoko oku kungabonwa njengophawu oluhle. Ukongezelela, phambi kwintombazana enomdla kuyo, loo mfana uya kuhlala ezama ukubonakalisa ekukhanyeni okuphumeleleyo: uya kufuthula amahlombe akhe nesifuba, njengokungathi ngethuba ubonisa izihlunu ezinamandla okanye ezinye izinto ezintle. Ukongezelela, uya kukhangela indlela yokuba isondele ngakumbi kunomnqweno: thintela ngengozi, fakela, uxhomeke ngakumbi kunye nento ephazamisayo endlebeni yakho, njl njl.
  2. Kwiimpawu zokuqala ozithandayo umfana, ungabhekisela kwishintsho somfanekiso . Oku kuya kubonakalisa kokubili ekutshintsheni ukubonakala kwakhe kunye nendlela yokuziphatha. Ewe, uya kuzama ukujonga bhetele: utshintshe iinwele zakhe, fumana i jeans yomzekelo, njl. Kule meko, isitayela sakhe siya kukopa isimbolo intombazana ngokwayo. Umzekelo, ukuba uyayigatya imithetho kunye neendibano kwaye ukhetha isitayela semidlalo kwiingubo, uya kugqoka ngendlela efanayo.
  3. Umntu onamahloni uya kuba neentlumba, athathe uhlobo oluthile lokungahambi kakuhle, njengoko uShurik akwenzayo kwifilimu ethi "Ukuxhamla". Abantu abanjalo badla ngokusebenzisa amanethiwekhi omntu njengendlela yokuzibonisa: bathumela izipho, "bahlele" iifoto, njl. Njalo, abangenakunqandwa baya kusebenzisa bonke abakwaziyo kunye nolwazi ukutsala ingqalelo yomntu abanomdla kuzo: ukubiza i-anecdote, ukudlala igitare, njl. baya kuqhayisa kwaye baqhayise ngokufanelekileyo kwabo.
  4. Abo banomdla, ziziphi ezinye iimpawu ezikhoyo apho umfana akuthandayo, kukufanelekile ukuphendula ukuba le yinto engabonakaliyo kwizinto ze ntombazana nayo yonke into enxulumene nayo. Isikhwama esiwa phantsi kwezandla zendoda, ipeni okanye enye into iya kugcinwa ngokucophelela, kwaye iyakwazi ukuyibamba, ukubetha, njl njl. Uya kuvuyisa ukuphatha yonke into ethandekayo kuye kwaye ahambe naye kwicandelo lezemidlalo, ukuba uyamtyelela, abe nomdla kwiintyatyambo ukuba uyazithanda, njl njl.
  5. Abo bacela ukuba bafumene njani ukuba uyamthanda umfana, kufuneka uqaphele eso sibonakaliso njengoncedo lokwenene. Le nsizwa enothando iyayinceda intombazana ngokude namandla akhe kunye nekhono layo: uyayicombulula ingxaki, ahambe inja, alungise izixhobo zendlu, kwaye xa ehamba uya kuthatha inkunkuma yakhe.
  6. Kwiimpawu ozithandayo umntu, unokuquka rhoqo "iintlanganiso". Ukuba uvela kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zentlalo okanye uchitha ixesha lakho elikhululekileyo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo okanye iinkampani, ungamangaliswa ukuba loo mfana uqala ukubonakala ngqo apho afuna ukuba nomdla kwiintombi zakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuza neqela lezizathu zokubangela ukuba ubonakale apha, kodwa ukuba oko kwenzeka ngexesha eliqhelekileyo, ngoko kuyacaca ngovelwano lwakhe.
  7. Ewe, uphawu lokugqibela lubukeka. UFrank, uyadlala kwaye uyimfihlakalo - unokucacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba uvelwano olukhoyo, kodwa ukuba le nkwenkwe ikubukeka ngokucacileyo kwaye igxininise amehlo yakhe kwi-decollete nangezantsi, ngoko ngokucacileyo unomdla wesondo.

Kukho imiqondiso enjalo enokuyithemba ngayo ekuhloleni iinjongo zakhe, kwaye kuyakunceda ukuphulaphula intuition yakho - ayiyi kukuyeka.