I-aphorism eqhelekileyo malunga ne-transvestism ingu-Valery Saltykov. Uchaza lo mzekelo njengenzame yokuphumelela ngokugqwesileyo ngaphandle kwesini sakhe. Enyanisweni, ukudlulisa izinto kubandakanya ukuguqula umntu kwiingubo zesini esahlukileyo. Ziziphi izizathu zokuziphatha? Siya kusebenza ngokulandelelana.
Iinkcukacha
Ukuba iminyaka eyi-10 edlulileyo iinguqu ezininzi zesiniko zazingaziwa nawuphi na umntu, zibhekwa njengento enkwantya, kodwa ngoku zithetha ngokucacileyo. Le nxalenye yobomi bethu, uluntu.
Ukuphambuka kweengqondo kunye nokuziphatha kakubi kwezenzo zesondo zesimo somntu, ezibandakanya ebusweni obungavamile, ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga uluntu, ukuthambekela ngokwesini kunye neminqweno. Enye yale fomu i-transvestism. Indoda ayiphumelelanga injongo yakhe yokutshatyalaliswa kwayo ngokwesondo ngokupheleleyo, kodwa akayikuphepha into yokuba aphinde aphinde abe ngummeli wesini esahlukileyo. Izambatho, izesekeli, ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo - ukuphindaphinda kwimihla ngemihla kunika umqondo wokuzola kunye nokuwaneliseka.
I-Transvestism ineendlela ezimbini: u-fetishism kunye nokuguqulwa kweqela elibini:
- I-transvestism ye-Fetishism iyonwaba ngokugqoka isini esahlukileyo. Umntu ufumana uvuyo xa esesidlweni sesilisa okanye sesigqila. Le ndlela ayiqhathaniswa ukuba isifo sengqondo. Ukuba ukuvuselelwa okunjalo kubangela ukuba umntu abe nesifiso esingalawulekiyo sokwenza izenzo ezingalunganga kuye, kwaye uyakuba ngumqobo kumsebenzi wesondo oqhelekileyo, ngoko oku kuyisifo. Le yenye yeendlela zokuphazamiseka kwezesondo.
- Ubukho bolu hlobo lwengxaki lubangela umntu ukuba enze yonke imizamo yokwenza ukubonakala kwakhe kubonakale kufana nommeli wesini esahlukileyo. Kwi-arsenal kukho inamba enkulu yezo zonke iingubo zokugqoka, izimonyo, i-wigs kunye nezinye izixhobo. Emva kokwanelisa imfuno yesondo umntu unomnqweno ongenakunqwenelekayo wokususa iimpahla zakhe ezisetyenziswayo. Ngoko de kubekho ixesha elizayo.
- I-Transvestizm indima ephindwe kabini ibonakaliswa ngokungafuni ukuzithumela kwisini sayo sobomi. Ukuze anelise isidingo sokubhikisha kwindalo yomntu, umntu unobungozi bokusebenza kwenkqubo yesini esahlukileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, ebomini "udlala" yena kunye "nomnye" ngokwakhe.
Izizathu
Izizathu zeli qalo kwaye nanamhlanje zifundwa yiengcali zeprofayili ezahlukeneyo: iingqondo zengqondo, izabelo zesondo, izazi ze-neuropathologist, njl. Izizathu zingafani kakhulu:
- umnqweno wokugqoka iimpahla zesini esahlukileyo ngenxa yokukhuliswa kakubi. Musa ukukhuthaza iqhinga lomntwana wakho ukuzama izinto ezingavamile kuye. Ngaphandle koko, kwinqanaba elincinane, ulungisa lo msebenzi kuye;
- izizathu eziphilayo. I-Transvestism ingaba yinto engafanelekanga. Iingxaki nge-endocrine ne-neurolo system;
- nkcubeko. Ukuphambuka kwezocansi kudla ngokugqithisekileyo kubantu abaye, ngenxa yemigaqo-yentlalo, bekufuneka banqande iqela eliphambili ixesha elide;
- imeko enzima. Ukulahlekelwa ngumntu omthandayo, umzekelo, kunokubangela ukuba le ngxaki (indoda ilahleke udade wayo);
- umdlalo odlala umdlalo wezocansi ngokuziguqula unokubangela ukukhanga ezinye izinto ezinjalo.
Yiba nguwe. Zama ukuba ngowona nto, kodwa kungekhona omnye umntu.