Umfazi owaziyo ukuthanda umntu kwaye uzuze intliziyo yakhe unemivuzo eninzi: uya kufumana lula umlingane ebomini, ngaphandle kobunzima kuya kunyuka kwinqanaba lomsebenzi. Ngako oko, nawuphi na ummeli wesini obuthathaka kufuneka abe nolwazi lokukhohlisa. Ukujongana nendoda kunokubukeka kakuhle, kuba le nto yokuqala eyona nto ininzi yabo bayayiqwalasela . Kodwa ukuziphatha okuchanekileyo kule ngxaki kudlala indima ebalulekileyo. Siza kuchaza zonke ezi zinto zifihlakeleyo.
Yintoni intokazi engakwazi ukuyenza kuyo indoda?
- Ukubonakala okungenakwenzeka. Njengokuba abantu babengathethi ukuba iimpawu zabo zokomoya bazikhangela kwintsimi echaseneyo, iingqondo zabo zibambelela. Ukulungelelanisa ukubunjwa, izinwele ezibekekileyo kunye ne-wardrobe enhle iya kwenza umfanekiso onokutsala ingqalelo. Kodwa i-sloveniness yentombazana kunye nokungabikho kokunyamekela yimiba eya kuphazamisa nayiphi na indoda.
- Ngokumalunga nento ongayinceda ngayo umntu unokuxelelwa ixesha elide: ukuthobeka kokomoya kunye nokuthozama, indlela yokuhlaziya kunye nokuphila okulungileyo. Kwakhona, impumelelo nokwaneliseka yilezo zimpawu ezityelela amadoda.
- Intombazana efuna ukukhawulela imele ibe yimfihlelo kwaye ihluke. Namhlanje unokuthobeka, kwaye ngomso udlala ngothando kwaye edlala.
- Ukudlala ngeso sixhobo esikhulu esiza kunceda ukufumana isondo esahlukileyo.
- Ukulungiswa kunye nobunkokheli. Ukuze unqobe umntu onolwazi olunzulu, umntu kufuneka ahlakulele kwaye aphucule.
- Kuye kwenzeka ukuba amadoda athande nezindlebe. Ngoko ke, elowo mfazi kufuneka adle ukuba yiliphi igama eliza kumelana nomntu. Ngokwezi-polls, ininzi enjengayo xa abafazi bebiza ngokuba nethembekile, abanamandla, abanomdla nabahlakaniphile. Ukutsala, ungasebenzisa ibinzana ngala magama. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe ngokunyanisekileyo, ukusuka entliziyweni. Ngoko ukuba loo mntu akaqiniseki ngokuqinisekileyo kwamagama.
Uyakuqonda njani into ebambe indoda?
Kukho imiqondiso apho umntu angaba nomdla kumntu wesifazane:
- iifowuni eziqhubekayo, imiyalezo;
- ucela ukuba uhambe, u tyelele;
- Unika izipho ngaphandle kwesizathu;
- uzama ukwenza umzekelo omhle kumfazi.