Umntwana ukhubaze esikolweni - yintoni enokuyenza?

Inkohlakalo yabantwana yayisoloko ihlala, kwaye, njengomthetho, ibonakalisa kakhulu. Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba esikolweni, ababuthathaka bahlala bexhatshazwayo: ukubiza, ukuthatha izinto nokuphanga, ukukhaba, njl njl. Kwanjalo, kubonakala ngathi, ingxaki enjalo, njengengqungquthela yokuhlambalaza, inokubetha nzima kwi-psychology yengane yesikolo, ibangela umonakalo ongafanelanga. Yintoni enokuyenza kubazali, ukuba umntwana ukhubekile esikolweni, okokuqala, ukuqonda imeko.

Indlela yokuziphatha kubazali?

Kukho iingxaki ezininzi xa umntwana ekhubekile esikolweni, ehlaziya ukuba ubani unokufumana isisombululo jikelele:

1. Imbonakalo engavamile: iiglasi, iinwele ezibomvu, njl. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukukhathaza "amehlo anine" okanye "Xa umkhulu utshaya ifosholo?" Kwiimeko ezinjalo unokuva rhoqo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa umntwana ukuba abe nekratshi ukuba akafani nabanye abantu. Ukwenza oku, kuyimfuneko ukufumana umntu (umdlali, unobungcali wezopolitiko, njl.) Onobonakaliso obungaqhelekanga, kodwa ujongene negunya elikhulu kubantwana. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka uguqule ukunqumla izinwele okanye ukuma kweziglasi.
2. Iingxaki ezifunekayo zokupheliswa: ukulungiswa ngokomzimba, ubunzima obunzima, iintsilelo zokuthetha, amazinyo aphihliweyo , njl. Ukuba umntwana wakho usihlungu esikolweni ngenxa yezi zizathu, ngoko umntwana ufuna uncedo lwenzululwazi: umlomo wengcali, udokotela wamazinyo, njl. Kubaluleke kakhulu apha ukuba ungavumeli ukuba imeko idibeneyo, kwaye nangona kungekho mathuba emali, ngoko ngezinye iingxaki, umzekelo, ukugqiba, unokulawula ekhaya.
3. Izinto ezingcolileyo. Yintoni abazali abafanele bayenze xa umntwana ekhubekile esikolweni ngenxa yokungabi nantoni yezinto ezintle kwaye ezibiza kakhulu ngumbuzo obangela abaninzi ekufeni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uzame ukuqinisekisa umntwana ukuba unamanye amancedo amaninzi, ngaphezu kwezinto eziphathekayo-kufuneka ube nekratshi ngolwazi lwakho, iimpumelelo zakho, iimpawu ezifanelekileyo, iimpawu kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka uyithwale into ethile. Ngokomzekelo, ngohlobo lwemoya, izambatho ezenziwe ngezandla, okanye ngokutyelela umgudu owaziwayo.

Zonke ezi ziimeko ezinokusombulula ngaphandle kokubandakanya abanye. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana ulwaphule esikolweni ngabafundi afunda nabo, kubangela ukulimala, ukuphanga, umonakalo wepropati, ngoko ke abazali kufuneka baxoxe nootitshala nabazali baxhaphaza, kwaye ukuba oko akuncedi, qhagamshelana namapolisa.

Ukongeza, ukwenzela ukuba ungakhubekisi umntwana esikolweni, kucetyiswa ukuba ufunde umthandazo kwi-Angel Angel "Ukukhusela abantwana kwiintlekele kunye neentlungu". Kuya kunceda ukukhusela zombini onyana oya kwibanga lokuqala, kunye nesikolo esiphakamileyo.

Isicatshulwa somthandazo: "Ndiyakunceda, umgcini wam onentliziyo elungileyo, ondizuzile, undikhanyise ngokukhanya kwakhe, wandikhusela kuzo zonke iintlungu. Yaye inarhamncwa inomsindo okanye intshaba iyimbi kunam. Kwaye akukho nxalenye, okanye umntu otyhawulayo akayi kungonakalisa. Kwaye akukho nto inokubonga ngokunyamekela kwakho andiyi kukulimaza. Ngaphantsi kobuncwane bakho obungcwele, phantsi kokukhusela kwakho ndihlala, uthando lweNkosi yethu ndilufumana. Ngoko ke izibilini zabantwana bam abangenangqiqo nabangenasono, endibathandayo, njengoko uYesu wamyalela, ukhusela kuyo yonke into endikhusele ngayo. Makungabikho nkomo enkqantosi, akukho ntshaba, akukho nto, akukho mntu utyhafileyo oyingozi kubo. Ndiyanincenga, ingelosi engcwele, iqela likaKristu. Kwaye uThixo uzimisele bonke. Amen. "

Ukufingqa, ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba into ebaluleke kakhulu kule meko ayiyikukrazula ingxaki nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa ukuzama ukuyicombulula. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana abe nexhaswa kunye nenkathalo yentsapho.