Iimvavanyo zengqondo zengqondo yolwazi zithandwa kakhulu kutshanje. Abanye abakholelwa ekukholweni ukuba akukho naluphi uvavanyo oluzilungeleyo oluye lwangena kwi-intanethi lunokuvelisa iziphumo ezichanekileyo, ukushiya abaphandi banedatha kakhulu. Mhlawumbi, oku kunjalo ngokwenene, kuba uvavanyo olona lukhulu kunalo ulwazi luyimpilo evula yonke imiba yomlingiswa wabantu, kodwa ulwazi olubanzi oluvanyo luyakunceda luncedo kakhulu.
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1. Khawucinge ukuba ngaphambi kokuba unqabileyo, zama ukujonga iinkcukacha ezincinci - isanti, ilanga. Emva koko cinga i-cube entlango, qi kelela indawo kunye nobukhulu bayo. Ngoku uzama ukubona ididi, jonga amaninzi amanyathelo ayenayo, kunye nendlela esondele ngayo kwikhamera. Ngaphandle kwintlango kukho ihashe, khangela apho.
Iimpendulo kule mibuzo ziza kubonisa isimo sengqondo kubo, abahlobo kunye nosapho. I-cube ifanekisela umntu ngokwakhe, obala ngakumbi kunye nokukhanya, umntu onomusa kunye ovulekileyo. Ubukhulu bekhamera bubonisa indlela umntu ozijonga ngayo. Le nqanaba libonisa abahlobo, kunye nenani lamanyathelo kunye namandla alo, kubonisa ukuba unako ukubathela kubo ngexesha elincinane okanye cha. Ihashe iyisiqingatha sesibini. Ukusondela kwakho kufaka ilayari okanye ihashe kwikhampu, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
2. Ukuqhubeka uhamba entlango, ufumene isitshixo kwisanti. Cinga ngezinto yena kunye noko uza kwenza ngako.
Isitshixo sisimo sengqondo ngabahlobo, isinyithi esilula siya kuthetha malunga neemfuno eziphantsi kubahlobo, into eyona nto kukuba bafuneka - ukulula ukuthetha. Isihluthulelo esasidala ngokudala siza kukuxelela malunga nomnqweno womntu wokuzibhokoxa ngeentlawulo zakhe kubahlobo bakhe, ukhetha abo baneendawo eziphakamileyo zezentlalo. Iqhosha elikhulu legolide elivela kwindlovukazi ngePinocchio liza kubonisa ukufaneleka komntu ekukhethweni kwabahlobo, kufuneka ukuba babe ngabantu abathembekileyo nabalungileyo. Ukuba uthatha isitshixo, ngoko uxabisa ubuhlobo, ukuba uyishiya ngaphandle kokunyamekela, kuya kubonisa ukuvalwa kwakho kwintetho, kwaye ukuba uhamba emva kokujonga kakuhle, kuthetha ukuba unomdla kumhlobo wakho kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukwesaba ukuguquka Ubuhlobo bakho ngumthwalo.
3. Hamba phambili kwintlango eshushu, kwaye uza kubona imbiza entlabathi. Khangela ukuba kunjalo, nokuba ukhangele kuyo.
Ukuba ukhangele kwi-pitcher, ngoko uthanda umnqweno wolwazi. I-pitcher engenanto ingumqondiso wokuzithoba , kunye negolide okanye iigugu - ngokuphakamileyo kakhulu, kunye namanzi-malunga novavanyo lwangempela lobuchule, kwaye libonisa nomnqweno womntu wokuphuhlisa. Ukuba i-jug yenziwe ngodongwe, oku kuthetha ngokukwenzekayo kunye nomqondo ophuculweyo wenani, ukuba i-jug yenziwe ngentsimbi okanye yobhedu, ke lo mntu akanalo le ntliziyo.
4. Uphinde uphume entlango kwaye ubona phambi kwakho udonga olukhulu, olubonakala luphela. Uza kwenza ntoni?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo iya kubonisa indlela ozazisombulula ngayo iingxaki. Ukuba udonga lubonakala luphakame kakhulu kuwe, olungenako ukunqotshwa, lithetha ukuba ubunzima bunokukukhupha ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uzama ukunqumla udonga, ngoko udla ngokujamelana neengxaki, uqikelele ngempumelelo yonke imiphumo. Kodwa ukuba uhlala phantsi phantsi kodonga kwaye ulindele uncedo, ngoko lithetha ngokungaqiniseki nokuxhomekeke kwiimeko.
5. Emva kokuba usakwazi ukuwela udonga, wawubona isixeko, esesangweni elathi lafika. Ngaba uya kumxelela okanye awuboni ukuba uya kuthetha?
Umntu omncinci uyimpilo yakho, ukuba uyayiphatha njani ngokukhawuleza, njengokuba unomdla ngempilo yakho.
6. Ufikile kwisixeko phakathi kwendawo yakho yokuhlala. Uya kuye, ukhuphuke izitebhisi kwaye uvula umnyango ngundoqo, ungene ngaphakathi. Chaza yonke into oyibonile kuyo.
Indlu yindawo yakho yangaphakathi. Iifestile ezinkulu ezikhanyayo kunye namagumbi avulekileyo athetha ngobuhlobo kunye nokuvuleka komntu, kwaye ukuba amagumbi asemnyama, ngoko ke umntu unengxaki kwaye uhlala ecinezelekile. Abantu abaya kuhlala kwindlu bahamba ngexabiso kakhulu kuwe.
Emva kokuba ube nokuphumla okuncane kwindlu, ufuna ukubuyela kwakhona kwisixeko, ekudlulileyo konke, wawusekupheleni kwendawo enzonzobileni, unokuwela ngaphaya kwebhuloho elincinci elenzelwe umntu oyedwa. Usuke uhamba ngomgama wesigxina, kodwa ngokukhawuleza umfana ovelele phambi kwakho, uvimba indlela kwaye akafuni ukukunika indlela, kwaye kufuneka uhambe ngaphesheya. Uza kwenza ntoni?
Le meko ibonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho nabanye abantu. Ukuba uzama ukusombulula imeko ngehlabathi, oku kuthetha ngezakhono zakho zezopolitiko. Kodwa ukuba uthe wanyusa i-bwarf ye-bridge, ngoko ke awuqhelekanga ingqalelo yabanye abantu, ukuxazulula iingxaki.