Sonke sithanda ukutya ngokumnandi. Kodwa ukutya ngokufanelekileyo, ukugcina yonke imigaqo yomthetho etafileni, kungekhona wonke umntu onako. Ngelishwa, namhlanje akukho zifundo okanye iikhosi esikolweni, apho abantwana baya kufakwa kwiimigaqo yokuziphatha etafileni. Ngaloo ndlela, ngabazali kuphela abakwaziyo ukufundisa izingane zabo zokuziphatha.
I-Etiquette etafileni kubantwana
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ulayishe imemori yomntwana kunye neentlobo zeefoloko kunye neepuni ze-spoon azifanelekanga, kodwa imithetho eyimigaqo yokuziphatha etafileni umntwana wakho kufuneka azi. I-Etiquette etafileni yabantwana ayifani ngokubanzi kwimithetho yabantu abadala. Umbuzo oyintloko ngowona ndlela ukukwazisa ngokuqinisekileyo kwiimvuthu ezitshoyo ukuba zitshate zilandele imigaqo.
Indlela ebhetele kuzo zonke iimeko sele ihlala ngumzekelo. Yidla rhoqo kunye nentsapho yonke, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe umntwana uya kujwayela ukugcina ngokufanelekileyo i-spoon neforki. Uyakwazi ukufundisa kwifom yomdlalo: xelele ibali malunga nomlingisi ongeyena ongayifuni ukulandela imithetho yeprayimari.
Ukuba ufuna ukufundisa umntwana ukuba asebenzise izixhobo, cwangcisa itafile ngokwemiqathango. Kuphela kumkhuba oqhubekayo we-crumb ungafunda iindlela zokusingatha i-spoon neforki. Qiniseka ukuba uchazela umntwana ezinye iingongoma ezibalulekileyo kuwo wonke umntu:
- i-posture elula kunye nehle;
- Musa ukuzenzela iplate, ungaphenduli;
- akuvumelekanga ukudlala okanye ukudlala ngokutya;
- fundisa umntwana ukuba anakekele: ukunikela isonka, umzekelo.
Ngomntwana olu lwazi lwanele ukuba lube lukhuni kwaye lunganiki isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa.
Indlela yokuziphatha kwiTable
Nangona ivenkile yindawo yokutyela kakhulu kwaye i-atmosphem iyaqhayisa, zama ukuhlala ukhululekile. Akwamkelekanga ukuwahlula esihlalweni, ubeke izibonda kwitafile.
Ukuba unxibelelana ngokuhambelana nommelwane etafileni, akufanele ujike kuwo kunye nomzimba wonke. Kwanele ukujika intloko yakho. Akukufanelekile ukuba uqhelane okanye uthethe ngomntu ngommelwane. Unokucela ukuba udlulisele iplati kumgcini wendawo kwaye kuphela xa engekho, kuvunyelwe ukubuza malunga nalo mmelwane.
I-napkin ivame ukusikwa kwaye igubude ukuze ingabonakalisi ingubo okanye ibhulukwe. Emva kokuphela kwesidlo, i-napkin ifakwe kwesokudla seplate kwifom eyandisiweyo.
Ukuba ulahleka ngepeni okanye ifom, ucele enye, uzenza ngathi akukho nto iyenzekayo. Amanye amalungu omthendeleko akufanele ayithobele le nto, ngaloo ndlela ebonisa intlonelo kunye nengqiqo.
I-Etiquette yokuziphatha etafileni ibonisa ubuchule kunye nompheki: musa ukugxekisa isidlo okanye ukubonakalisa i-plate. Sula izandla zakho kwisitrato kwaye uthathwa njengokuba ubude bokungafanelekanga.
Isidlo ngokwemigaqo yomgaqo-nkqubo iyakwenqabela ukusela utywala ngaphambi kokuba uqalise isilwanyana sokuqala. Iilazi kunye nezibuko zithengiswa kwiibini ezimbini. Ukuba ibhotile igcwele, kufuneka uqale uthele iwayini kuwe, kwaye ke intombi ihlezi ngakwesokudla. Ngelo xesha, galela ngokuchanekileyo ngesandla sakho sobunxele, ujika kancane kummelwane. Ungaze unyanzele isivakalisi okanye ummelwane ukuba asela ukuba uyala.
Uluhlu lwetafile ngokwemiqathango yokuziphatha
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokudla isidlo ngokwemiqathango yemigaqo yokuziphatha, okokuqala kufuneka ufunde indlela yokusebenzisa kakuhle itafile. Iipakkins zifakwa kwicala lasekhohlo kwiplati okanye ukuya ngasezantsi. Ukuba i-napkin yesikhumba, inokuthi ilandwe ngumqhubi okanye i-cone, oku kuya kunika ilungiselelo lokuzonwabisa.
Khetha ityhulafile ngokwebukhulu betafile. Kuyamkeleka ukusebenzisa ityhula yembethe yamanqaku, kodwa imhlophe egxininisa isidima.
Ukukhonza, zama ukusebenzisa izitya ezifanayo. Beka amacwecwe ejongene nesihlalo ngasinye. Ukususela kumda wetafile ukuya kwiplani akufanele kube ngaphezu kwe-2 cm. Zama ukugcina umgama olinganayo phakathi kwezixhobo kunye namacwecwe.