Ukunyuswa kwamalungelo omzali kayise kwenzeka kuphela enkundleni, ngelixa unina ungummangali, kwaye uyise ungummangalelwa. Amatyala kule nkalo ayinzima ukuyiqwalasela, kuba iimfuno zomntwana zibandakanyeka apha kwaye yonke imiphumo yesigqibo kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo ukuze umntwana angabandezeleka kwixesha elizayo.
Izizathu zokunqongophala kwamalungelo omzali kayise
Izizathu zokunyanzelwa kwamalungelo omzali kayise zihlobo olukhethekileyo. Zibhalwe kwiNkqubo yoLapho. Ezi ziquka:
- imeko xa uyise engayifezekanga uxanduva lwakhe lokunyamekela, imfundo kunye nokubonelelwa kweemeko zokuphila eziqhelekileyo kumntwana;
- ukukhutshwa kabuhlungu kwentlawulo ye-alimony;
- ukungalawuleki kokungabikho kokuthatha umntwana wabo kwisibhedlele sokubeleka okanye kumaziko okukhusela uluntu okanye eminye imibutho efanayo;
- ukuphathwa kakubi kwamalungelo omzali;
- ukuxhaphazwa kwabantwana, ubundlobongela bemvelo okanye yengqondo, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokwesini;
- ukuxhatshazwa koba ngotywala okanye iziyobisi, utywala obungapheliyo okanye utywala;
- ukwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho olusesikweni ngobomi okanye kwimpilo yomntwana okanye umlingane.
Amatyala anjalo ahlolwe ngokuthatha inxaxheba komtshutshisi, amabhunga olawulo kunye ne-trusteeship. Banelungelo lokubonisa uluvo lwabo ngendlela kunye namabango.
Umfazi akakwazi ukuchaza ngokucacileyo ukuba uyise womntwana kufuneka anqatshelwe amalungelo omzali.
Indlela yokunciphisa uyise welungelo lomzali?
Indlela yokunciphisa ubaba wamalungelo omzali, kwaye nawaphi na amanqaku angentla anqunywe yedwa yinkantolo, ngesiseko sezatifikethi kunye nobungqina bokuba mangqina anikezelweyo.
Amaphepha afanelekileyo ekukhutshweni kwamalungelo omzali kayise angahlukahluka kwimeko nganye, kuxhomekeke kwizizathu zokungabikho kwamalungelo omzali kayise.
Kodwa kukho ipakethe emiselweyo yamaxwebhu:
- Isitatimende sesibango enkundleni yomhlali oMmangalelwa.
- I-original kunye nekopi yesatifiketi sokuzalwa somntwana.
- Eyokuqala kunye nekopi yesatifiketi somtshato.
- Ukukhutshwa kwincwadi yendlu kwindawo yokuhlala kuyo ummangali.
Xa ucinga ityala, ijaji inelungelo lokucela nayiphi na ixwebhu eliyimfuneko.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ngexesha letilingo, ijaji inokugqiba isigqibo sokungalahleli amalungelo, kodwa ukukhawulela amalungelo omzali kayise. Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba ubukho bukayise ebomini bomntwana buba yingozi, kodwa kungekhona ngephutha lomntu omdala (umz., Izifo ezithintekayo okanye iingqondo, utywala). Enye, ukuba ukuziphatha kayise kuyingozi kumntwana, kodwa akukho zizathu ezifanelekileyo zokunqongophala kwamalungelo omzali.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha uyise ngokwakhe wenqaba amalungelo omzali. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuyenzeka ngokuvumelana kwemibini yomtshato, xa ibhinqa liza kuphinda litshatile kwaye okhethiweyo wakhe uyavuma ukuthatha umntwana. Ukwenqaba okunjalo kubhaliwe kwi-ofisi yomanothi kunye noqinisekiso lwenkcazo. Ngaphezu koko, ubaba onjalo unqatshelwe amalungelo kumntwana.
Iziphumo zokuncitshiswa kwamalungelo omzali kayise
Imiphumo yokulahlwa kwamalungelo omzali kayise yile ndlela ilandelayo:
- umntu uyeka ukuba ngumntu wasemzini ngomntwana;
- Abanalo ilungelo lokuqhubeka xa bengakwazi ukufumana inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana, nangona xa beba
abadala. Wena. umntwana akayi kuba nako ukunceda uyise wangaphambili; - ukulahlekelwa ngamalungelo kwizibonelelo kunye neenzuzo ezivela kwilizwe, ezisekelwe kwiintsapho ezinezingane.
- utata onqatshelwe amalungelo akhe akakwazi ukuphazamisa ukukhuliswa kunye nemfundo yomntwana, kunye nokukhetha indawo yokuhlala kuyo umntwana;
- ukuhluthwa kwelungelo lokufumana ilifa labantwana, xa kwenzeka ukufa komntwana.
Ootata abanqunywe ngamalungelo omzali ngaba umthetho awunakukwazi ukuwamkela omnye umntwana, abe ngumgcini omiselweyo, kwaye banqatshelwe ilungelo lokufumana abazali.
Ngelo xesha, abo bafana basenyanzelekile ukuhlawula inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana, ukuya kwixesha elininzi. Abantwana nabo bagcina amalungelo kwizindlu apho babhalisiwe khona, nokuba ngaba ngowokuqala ubaba. Kwakhona, abantwana banelungelo lokudla ilifa lobawo, banqatshelwe amalungelo omzali.