Ukuqinisekiswa kothando

Uthando lugunya olukhulu kakhulu olwenza ukuba ukwazi ukuva ihlabathi ngokungafaniyo, kwaye ube namava amaninzi. Akumangalisi ukuba ngamnye wethu uzama ukwazi le ntliziyo. Enyanisweni, abanye kufuneka bavune ixesha elide. Kuhle ukuba kukho iindlela zokuzalisa ubomi bakho ngothando. Enye yeendlela ziyimpawu zokuthanda umntu. Musa nje ukubadibanisa ngemilingo, abayi kuholela kuwe emngceleni we "nkosana", kodwa utshintshe isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini, akunike ithuba lokuba wenze ngendlela efana nokufezekisa injongo . Ngoko ke, ukuphindaphinda kuphela ukuqinisekiswa ekuthandeni uthando akunelisekile, kuya kufuneka usebenze ngokuzimela.

Ukuqinisekiswa kokutsala uthando

1. Intliziyo yam ivulelwe uthando olutsha.
2. Ndiyimemori eheha uthando kum ubomi wam.
3. Ndiyakuthanda uthando kunye nolwalamano.
4. Ndifumana umntu ongcono kum, phakathi kwethu unomdla kunye nothando.
5. Ndiyamthanda abantu, kwaye ubomi bam buvulekile kubo.
6. Ndiyakuthanda uthando, kuba ndiyifanele.
7. Ndinikela kwaye ndamkela uthando lula, ngaphandle komzamo.
8. Ndiziva ukuba ndiyamthanda.
9. Ndiyamthanda kwaye ndithandwa. Oku kuhle!
10. Ndivumele ukuba ndiyithande, ikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo.
11. Intliziyo yam ivulekile ukunyamekela nokuthanda.
12. Ndiyifanele imithandazo.
13. Ndiyayithanda uthando kwihlabathi, kwaye ubuyela kum.
14. Ndivumela ukuba ndifunwe kwaye ndithande.
15. Ndiyamthanda njengomntu onqabileyo ebomini bam.

Ukongeza kwiimpawu zothando, ungasebenzisa indlela engaphantsi yokuthumela uthando. Isekelwe kumthetho ongenakuguqulwa wokubuyisela, njengoko bathi "oko uhlwayelayo, uya kuvuna." Ngoko ke, ukuba ufuna ukufumana uthando, ngoko kufuneka ubenike. Ngaphezu koko, kuyimfuneko ukuba singaniki nje kuphela kwihlabathi, kodwa yedwa.

Ukuqinisekiswa kwothando lomntu nolonwabo kulwalamano

Akwanele ukuzisa uthando ebomini, ndifuna ukugcina ubudlelwane ixesha elide. Ukwenza oku, ungasebenzisa ukuqinisekiswa kwesi siqulatho esilandelayo.

1. Umtshato wam osemhlabeni ubonakalisa ububambano obwenziwe ezulwini.
2. Nsuku zonke umtshato wam uphumelela ngakumbi.
3. Ndidala ubudlelwane kunye nothando ebomini bam.
4. Ndiziva ndifuna ukunqwenela umlingane wam.
5. Ndinothando olusulungekileyo, olungenammiselo kumlingane wam.
6. Thina kunye neqabane lethu kakhulu.
7. Umhlobo wam unyanisekileyo kum.
8. Umlingane wam uluthando lobomi bam, kwaye undiphatha ngokunjalo.
9. Umlingane wam kunye nami ndifanelekile ngokocansi.
10. Ndineqabane elimangalisayo, siyavuya.
11. Umlingane wam kunye nami ndifanelekile ngokomoya.
12. Mna kunye nomlingane wam ufanelekile ngengqiqo.
13. Ndiyabulela ubuhlobo bam nezifundo.
14. Emtshatweni wam, konke kulungile.
15. Sifaneleka ngokufanelekileyo kwintsebenziswano.
16. Ndinobudlelwane bokwabelana ngesondo kunye nomntu ondibathandayo ngokwenene.
17. Zonke iinguqu kwimpilo yam yomtshato zilungile, ndikhuselekile ngokupheleleyo.
18. Ndihlala ndihlala ndiziva ngento ehlelwe ngayo kwimitshato yethu yomtshato.
19. Ndiyamthanda ngokwenene umyeni wam.
20. Iqabane lam lihlonipha imbono yam, kwaye ndiyayihlonela imbono yakhe.

Phinda zonke iziqinisekiso ezikhankanywe ngasentla ukutyelela othandekayo akuyimfuneko, khetha kuphela ezo ezikuwe impendulo enkulu, okanye engcono kodwa, iza neenkcazelo zakho. Ekubeni kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu kunamanye amagama abantu, ukuqinisekiswa kwakho okuza kubonakalisa lakho ilizwe, liya kuhlawulwa ngamandla akho, oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kusebenza kakuhle. Kwakhona kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba kungekhona kuphela ukuqinisekiswa okukhankanywe ngokukodwa okuchaphazelayo, kodwa nakwezinye iingcinga kunye namazwi akho. Ngako oko, ukuba kusasa usho ngezihlandlo ezimbalwa kuwe ukuba ufanelwe uthando, kwaye yonke imihla uya kuba neengcamango ezingenazo nanye ukukhanya, kuba umfanekiso awufani, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo uyaphumelela, kwaye akukho miphumo emihle esuka kwiingqinisiso ku xabisa.