Ukuvakalelwa, okubangela ukuba umntu angene ngaphakathi, abe namava ubuncinane kanye kunye nobomi bakhe phantse ngamnye. Imbonakalo yomona omnyama iyaziwa kusukela kumaxesha amandulo. Inxulumene ngokusondeleyo nokungalingani nokungabikho kokungabi nabulungisa, okukuthi, ngandlela-thile, ihlale ihlala kwaye ihlala kwindawo ekhokelela kuyo nayiphi na indawo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukukhwelela indawo yentlalo, ubutyebi-ntsizana. Akunakunyulwa ukhetho lomona ngokuphathelele kwamakhono athile, iitalente, izakhono, njl.
Ingaba umona wesifazane uyinyani okanye inyaniso?
Kude kakhulu ukuxabana, kodwa bonke abesifazana bezilwanyana ezizimeleyo zabo, abo, ngokwabo iminqweno kunye nezinto eziphambili, zikulungele ukukrazula i-rival to pieces. Kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba ngamnye wethu unokujamelana nomona womhlobo, lowo unokwabelana naye ngamava kunye neemfihlelo ezithandana naye.
Ukuba sicinga ngento yokukhwabanisa ngokwesini sengqondo ngokufanelekileyo, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba lo mvakalelo ombi unokuvelisa enye okanye ngaphezulu kwezi zinto zilandelayo:
- uvakalelo;
- ukungaqiniseki;
- ukuzithoba;
- ukuzixhalaba kakhulu kwintanda yakhe.
Indlela yokujonga umona womzimba?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kukho ukungabikho kwempahla. Ngamanye amazwi, lulolu hlobo lomzimba, indlela esimele ngayo, indlela esibamba ngayo izandla, sisiphi isimo sengqondo esibonakalayo ngoku ebusweni bethu - konke oku kubonisa ukuba sizama ukufihla into kumnxibelelwano, ngaphezu koko, nakwezinye. UBhadilengvij lizwi le-subconscious.
- Smile . "Ndivuyiswa kakhulu kuwe!" - uthi umhlobo uyaphendula kwiindaba zokuthi unemoto entsha. Kubonakala kuwe ukuba umnxibelelwano uyabelana ngokupheleleyo nenjabulo yakho, kodwa umele ukhangele ukumomotheka kwaye uya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza: ukunyaniseka apha akukuvumba. Ngoko, ukumomotheka okubalulekileyo kukubonisa umona omnyama: izindebe zixakekile, iingcamango zomlomo zingabonakaliswa ngokungaqhelekanga kwaye azikho imibimbi ebonakalayo ejikeleze amehlo, kwaye abafundi abavumi ngovuyo . Ukongezelela, ukumomotheka kunokufana nomntu onqamlekileyo - kulo mzekelo, umxhasi okholelwayo unokholo lokuba unqabanqa unyulu akanakulungele oko akufumene.
- Amehlo . Umntu onomona akafuni ukubonisa isimo sakhe sengqondo kuwe, ukuphosa amehlo akhe. Enyanisweni, apha kubalulekile ukuba kube nomnye umzekelo: mhlawumbi intombi yakho ayinakukukhwele, ukuba uyaphakamisa amehlo akho. Akunakunyulwa ukuba ngelixa ilanga likhanya ebusweni bakhe.
- INtloko . Ukukhawuleka kweengcamango kubonakaliswe entloko etyunyiwe okanye kumzimba wonke. Ngokuqhelekileyo le nkcazo ibonisa ukungabi nantembelo kwinto ekhankanywe. Ukuze kuchane ngokuchanekileyo umona omnyama, kubalulekile ukujonga iimpawu ezisele zelwimi lomzimba.
- Izandla. "Ufanelwe okulungileyo" - kwaye ngelo xesha, izandla zomntu zithenga imilomo yazo okanye zikufutshane nazo. Khumbula, ubuyela ebuntwaneni, xa uxelela abazali ukuba buxoki, asizange siwagubungele umlomo wabo ngezandla zabo? Kule minyaka, lo mqondiso awunjalo. Ngaphezu koko, kunzima kubantu abadala ukuba bafunde
ulwimi lomzimba. Ukubuyela kumxholo womona, kubalulekile ukukhankanya ukuba ukunyusa i-chin edibeneyo nenqindi edibeneyo ibonisa nokuba nobukho bamagama.
Indlela yokulahla umona ngabantu?
Ekuqaleni kweli nqaku kwakhankanywe izinto, ngenxa yobukho umntu athambekele ekukhonteni abanye, kwanabantu abasondeleyo. Ngexesha xa uqaphela ukuba umona umntu, kubalulekile ukuzibuza: "Kutheni ndikhwele? Ngaba ndifuna ubomi obufana naye? Ndingayifeza njani le nto? Mhlawumbi kufuneka ndibe nenjongo? Ndiyakwazi ukuyeka ukugcoba kwaye ndixelele ukuba andifanelekanga nantoni na kwaye akunako ukuphumeza nantoni na? " Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, oku kuhlalutya, kodwa kuya kuvelisa iziqhamo.