Ukuze kube ngokuchanekileyo, uluntu oluthile luyaqhubeka, ukungabikho kokungaxakali okunjengezinto ezixhalabileyo nezingcinga ezibangele ukucinga.
Ulala ekulindeni kwabasetyhini yonke indawo nakuyo yonke indawo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ngokukhawuleza awukwazi ukuqonda ukuba ngaphambi kokuba u-misogynist - lo mmele wesigwebo esibi malunga nabasetyhini. Kwisistim somsebenzi omtsha, kwikontoni okanye kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, kwisikhululo senkonzo okanye kwindawo yokutyela, kwiikholeji zokuqeqesha eziphambili okanye kwi-resort. La madoda anjalo. Kwaye ukubonakala kwaloo nto kwi-horizontal kuyinto yangempela UKUKHENZISWA kowesifazane.
Zivela phi i-misogynists?
Oo, banesizathu esininzi sokuba oku kusebenze kwisiqingatha sobuthathaka somntu. Kwaye, kubalulekile ukuphawula, kungekhona zonke ezo zinto zingenasiseko kwaye zingenasisiseko. Ndithande ukuba ukuba xa kuvela le ndlela, bobabini abasetyhini kunye namadoda banesimo esifanayo. Zininzi izizathu ezibalulekileyo zokuba kutheni indoda i-misogynist. Ngokusekelwe kubo, i-misogynists efanayo iyahlula kwiindidi ezininzi.
Thayipha enye: uhlakaniphile
Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kubafazi "siyintsipho". Le nkohliso ikholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba yinyani eyona nto ihlakaniphile kunokuba nayiphi na ibhinqa. "Uya kuthatha ntoni naye?" Uyithambo! "- uthi, ngokubhekiselele kwingcamango yeBhayibhile yokudala umfazi.
Qaphela oku kulula. Baye bathuka kakhulu ngenxa yokuba abafazi ababandakanyeki kwishishini labo, xa bebandakanyeka kwezopolitiko, ishishini okanye nantoni na ngaphandle kokuphila. Bakholelwa ukuba indawo yowesifazane ekhitshini. Ukuba uthe wangena kwiingqungquthela ukuba umhlobo wakho unjalo u-misogynist, jonga kakuhle. Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuzama ukukususa ekubeni wenze izigqibo kwiinqanaba zokuqala, kwaye ngokubanzi kwaye kuzakuzama ukulawula, ukholelwa ukuba uyazi konke ngcono. Kwixesha elizayo, kungenakuvinjelwa ukuba kusebenze okanye kuthethwe nantoni na ngaphandle kwezingane nasekhaya.
Isizathu salesi simo sengqondo silula. Indoda inokwazi ukuba inkosikazi iya kuba yinto engcono kunye, intle, iphumelele. Ubunzulu, njengoko uyaqonda, ubunzima bokungahambelani kwawo bufihlekile.
Thayipha ezimbini: ushiyiwe
Ingqiqo yakhe engcwele "bonke abafazi bayizihenyu." "Owu, umfazi, lakho igama likhohlisayo!" I-misogynist iya kukucaphula, kwaye ibheka ngokugqithiseleyo evela phezulu, ithi uyakufumanisa, uyazi oko kukuqhubayo nendlela ongenako.
Kubonakala kakuhle ukusuka kude, kuyimfuneko nje ukuyiqhubela ukuxoxa ngale sihloko. Njengoko, ndingumhlobo omnye, ulapha okubi kakhulu kunye nomfana - watshintshwa-wangcatshiswa-washiya-eshiyiwe. Emva koko-mamela kwaye ubukele. Esi sihloko sibuhlungu kwaye mhlawumbi uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuziphatha kakubi kweentombi.
Ngezizathu ozicingayo, mhlawumbi ngokwakho. Ngesinye isikhathi, umfazi wamtshintsha. Wayekholwa, kwaye yena-njengaye. Olu hlobo aluyi kuza engqondweni ukuba kutheni lona wesifazane wenza loo nto. Le ndoda i-misogynist iya kuthatha i-axiom ehambelana nomntu wesifazane kwaye iya kukuphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
Noko ke, kukho ukhetho olungakumbi: usapho oluye lwashiya intsapho, lugculelwa ngumhlobo wowesifazane, njl. Nayiphi na imeko apho indoda "yayijikelezwe ngomnwe" kwaye ihlaziswa.
Uhlobo lwesithathu: alufanelekanga
Ezi zi-shots, ngoko kuthetha, zingabonakali ngobuhle. Ukungabikho kwengqwalasela kwinxalenye yowesifazane, ukungaphumeleli, uthando olungathandabuzekiyo, olwandiswe ngokuqonda okungenakuqondwa komntu ukuhluleka kwakhe kunye nobudenge - i-misogynist ilungile.
Ezi zinto zihlala zixhaswa ngeendleko zabafazi. Ziyindwendwe eziqhelekileyo kwiikhosi zokuhamba. Apho bafunda abaphumelelayo kwaye baqala ukubeka iingqolowa zabo bonke abafazi abasondeza ngokulala ngokukhawuleza, bafumane ukuzonwabisa okukhethekileyo kwinkqubo "yokuphosa".
Endaweni ethile ekujuleni bayaqonda ukuba le nto ibhinqa yayiyimbangela yeengxaki zakhe kunye nokuzithemba, kwaye oku, njengendlela yokusabela ngokwemvelo, kubangela ulwaphulo olubhekiselele kweso sizathu.
Uhlobo lwesine: Impindiselo
Ewe, onke amabhinqa adibana naloo nto ebomini bakhe!
Ubamelwane abasondelene nabo "bashiywe", kodwa ukuba uyabazonda abafazi ngenxa yobugwenxa bakhe, ngoko umphindiseli-unqwenela ukufumana bonke abantu. Kuye kungumcimbi wozuko. Umbuyiseli we-misogynist ukholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba bonke abesifazana banamaqabunga, kwaye kungekudala okanye kamva baya kubonakalisa ububi babo, obuyinto enyanyekayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kubonakala ngokwesini, okwenza kube lula ukukhohlisa ibhinqa, i-scowl kunye nokubuyisela-ukubuyisela-ukubuyisela. Ngokusemgangathweni, kunelungelo lokuhlangabezana naloo mbuzo-mkhono kanye, ukuze ungawa phantsi kwezo zinto.
Uhlobo lwesihlanu: umona
Ukusuka kwigama kuyacaca apho indawo yakhe embi. Le misogynist ithanda ukuphinda oko, bathi, kulula kubafazi ukuba baphile, kuba yonke into inikwe nje "ngamahle amahle." Bonke abesetyhini abachasayo indawo kunye nobuhenyu, bahlambalaza ukufezekiswa kweenjongo kwiibhedi.
Ngoko ke, iquka ukusilela kwayo. Ucinga ukuba lo mfazi uyindalo enengqiqo, kodwa akayilo nto, kwaye uyaphazamisa kuphela impumelelo yakhe yamadoda kunye nempumelelo. Kakade, akakwazi ukwenza oko. Yena, ihlwempu, kufuneka enze konke ngokwakhe. Ukusuka apho, nomona. Emva koko-inzondo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, i-misogynists ngexesha lethu liyingozi. Ngokutsho koqikelelo kwiplanethi yamadoda ayizigidi ezigidi ezi-3, yonke i-60 yi-misogynist. Kulo mbono, amadoda ahlangene ngokungathandeki kunokuba athande uthando lwebhola. Phantse yonke idolophu inayo iqela layo le-misogynists, kwaye, njengommiselo, ayikho enye.
Ngokwahlukileyo kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ABANTU abaninzi banokuzigweba. Akukho msi ngaphandle komlilo, uyazi. Zama ukuba uyingqiqo kwaye ungaphathi abantu ngokungahloneliyo, ukuxhamla. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, zethu iintombi kunye nabazukulwana abaza kuba banokungena kubomi obuphikisanayo behlabathi.