Bonke oomama bayazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ubisi lomntwana lungumntwana. Nangona kunjalo, akuyena wonke umntu onokukwazi ukufuna ukunyusa, kwaye ke umbuzo uvela malunga nendlela yokudlulisela umntwana kwisondlo sokufakelwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye kungenabuhlungu kunokwenzeka.
Ukuqalisa kuqala
Kukho imigaqo ethile malunga nendlela yokudlulisela umntwana kwisondlo sokufakelwa.
Okokuqala, faka enye yondlo olusondeza ngebhotile. Kungcono ukhethe ixesha lokuhlwa, kuba ubisi ngokuhlwa uqokelela ubuncinci. Xa unika umntwana ibhotile, zama ukuthetha naye, amagama athando achaza oko kufuneka ukuzama. Le ncoko, enokubonakala ngathi i-monologue, ngokwenene ibaluleke kakhulu kwintsana. Kwiintsuku ezine ukuya ezintlanu, kufuneka uguqule uncelisayo olusiswini, ngexesha apho umntwana uya kusetshenziselwa kwaye aphelelwe ukuba angabonakali.
Imithetho yokudluliselwa ngokukhawuleza kwisondlo sokufakelwa
Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa, shintsha indawo ezimbini okanye ezintathu zokuncedisa. Le ndlela, indlela yokudlulisa umntwana ngokuthe ngcembe ukususela ekunceliseni ukubeletha, ukuya kubelelwa kunye nokusondla kwibhotile, ngoko ukuguqula iimvuthu kuya kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Yenza njalo ngoko ufuna kwakhona malunga neentsuku ezisibhozo ukuya kwezilishumi. Ukutya kufuneka kuqhutywe rhoqo kunye neshedyuli, umzekelo, rhoqo ekuseni kunye nesidlo sasemini ukuze uncelise, kwaye ngaphambi kokutya kunye nakusihlwa-ukusuka kwibhotile. Kulungile noko, ukuba uyasondla amabele akho ekuseni kwaye ngokuhlwa, kwaye zonke ezinye izondlo ziya kuba yinto yokusebenza.
Emva koko uza kuba nokukhetha: shiya yonke into, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana ahlale esondlo esithile, okanye aphinde ashintshe indawo yokutya kunye nomsebenzi. Ukuba ugqiba ukukhupha ngokupheleleyo umntwana, khumbula ukuba kufuneka wenze oku ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Nika ithuba lokuba umntwana asetyenziswe kwibhotile, kwindlela entsha yokutya. Ukutya kwasekuseni kufuneka kuthathelwe indawo enye yokugqibela.
Ukuba okwangoku umntwana wakho uyasondeza i-pacifier, ukuyiguqulela kwisondlo sebhotile kuya kuba lula. Kwimeko apho, vumela intonga kwibhotile ibe yezinto ezifanayo kunye ne-dummy. Umxube kwibhotile kufuneka ufudumale, ukuze ulandelelwe ubisi lwebele.