Umtshato weCawa ngumfihlelo oyingcwele, kwaye ngaphakathi kwesi sikhokelo sobuKristu kukholelwa ukuba oku kufanele kwenzeke kanye ebudeni, kwaye ukuchithwa komtshato kuya kugwetywa. Nangona kunjalo, kukho uluhlu lwezizathu zokuba le nto isenokwenzeka.
Izizathu zokutshatyalaliswa komtshato
Ukuba kwi-ofisi ye-registry unikwa umtshato ngokulula, ukuba ubonisa "ukungafani okungafaniyo" okanye "akavumelani nabalinganiswa," ngoko izizathu zokuhlaziya umtshato wecawa kufuneka zibe zimelele kakhulu:
- ukutshatyalaliswa komnye wabatshatileyo;
- UGawulayo, i-syphilis okanye iqhenqa;
- ukudala umtshato omtsha ngomnye wabatshatileyo;
- ukutshintsha kokholo ngomnye wabatshatileyo;
- ukungakwazi ukuhlala kunye;
- isifo esingelaphekiyo (ngengqondo okanye emzimbeni, kuquka utywala kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi);
- isigwebo kunye noxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho;
- Ukungabikho kwexesha elide lomnye wabatshatileyo;
- i-sodomy, i-masturbation kunye nesondo;
- iinzame ebomini kunye nempilo yomlingane;
- ukungakwazi ukuvelisa;
- umtshato phambi koqabane elisemthethweni;
- umfazi wenza isisu ngokuthanda komyeni wakhe.
Ufanele ube ngetroneni ecaweni?
Izizathu zokutshatyalaliswa komtshato wecawa zichanekile, kwaye kukho naziphi na ezi zinto
Njengomthetho, umcimbi we-debunking ecaweni awunakwenziwa, kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba udibanise apho ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokutshata iqabane elitsha. Umfundisi ongenalwazi akanakukunceda: uya kufuneka usebenzise isicelo kwi-Ofisi yeDiscocese, idilesi yakhe oya kubakho kuyo nayiphi na itempile kwisixeko sakho. Ukungena kwakhona emtshatweni wecawa kunokuphela komntu ongatshatyalaliswa kwintlupheko yangaphambili.
Ukutshatyalaliswa komtshato wecawa kuyinkqubo enzima, kwaye ngoko, ukuba uyiphephe, musa ukukhawuleza ukungena emtshatweni webandla: qaphela okhethiweyo okanye owakhethiweyo ubuncinane iminyaka emi-5-7 ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uthathe isinyathelo esinjalo.