Ingqondo yezobunkokeli kunye nobunkokeli sele ithatha ingqwalasela yabantu. Yintoni eyenza umntu abe yinkokheli? Ungaba njani omnye? Le mibuzo ayikho inkulungwane yokuqala inqweno yenzululwazi inomdla kuyo. Kukho imbono yabantu abakhulu, okokuba umntu onenkalo ethile yeempawu uya kuba yinkokheli enkulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imeko umntu ayenayo.
Iikhokelo zobunkokheli
Ukongezelela, i-psychology yezenzo zengqondo iphakamisa umbuzo malunga nesimo sobuholi. Kwinkulungwane yeshumi leminyaka, isazi senzululwazi uK. Levin senze uvavanyo oluthile, olwalugqiba kamva ukuba luhlule iindlela ezintathu eziphambili zobunkokheli.
Siya kukunika ingqalelo nganye nganye:
- Umyalelo, uyindlela yokuzimela. Iquka imiyalelo emifutshane yobume boshishino, ukukhawulelana, ukungabi nalutho. Ulwimi olucacileyo kunye nemiyalelo, ukunyanzelisa. Ukungabi nemvakalelo ngexesha lokusebenza. Isicwangciso somsebenzi sichazwe ngokugcwele, kodwa isikhundla senkhathi asixoxwanga kwaye singaphandle kweqela. Xa usenza isicwangciso somsebenzi, kuphela iinjongo ezijoliswe ngqo. Kukho nawuphi na, ilizwi lekhokeli liza kugqiba.
- I-Collegiate (idemokhrasi) isitayela. Kuhluke ngokukodwa kwisitayela sobukhosi. Imiyalelo iza kwifomu yezivakalisi, unxibelelwano lukhulu kakhulu. Ukusetyenziswa kwe "kroti kunye nokunamathela" indlela yokudumisa kunye nokugxekwa ngeengcebiso. Inkokeli ibonisa isikhundla sayo kwiqela. Yonke imisebenzi ikwacetywa ngaphakathi kweli qela, kwaye bonke abathathi-nxaxheba bajongene nokuphunyezwa kweeprojekthi, zonke iinkalo zomsebenzi zithunyelwa kwingxoxo jikelele.
- Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, isitayela sinokubamba. Ukuthetha ulwimi lomntu esitrato-evumelekileyo, inkululeko. Isikhundla senkokeli siyasuswa ngokupheleleyo kwiqela lonke, izinto ziqhubeka ngathi ngathi. Ukusuka kwinkokeli, amalungu eqela awamkeli izabelo kunye nemiyalelo, yonke inkqubo yomsebenzi iququzelele iimfuno zamalungu ngamnye eqela.
Umsebenzi wesigqibo seDemokhrasi uthathwa njengeyona ndlela iphumelelayo kwezi ndlela zobunkokeli. Esi sikhundla siphethwe yiengcali ezininzi ezisebenza kwintsimi yolawulo. Umsebenzi wenkokheli xa usebenzisa uhlobo lolawulo lwentando yesininzi kukuba kuphuculwe isimboli somsebenzi wokulawula ukuze kwenziwe njengobunxibelelwano njengoko kunokwenzeka.
Ingxaki yobunkokheli kwiSkychology
Inomdla ukutadisha ingxaki yobunkokeli kwizesengqondweni. Kuyo nayiphi na iqoqo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umnqweno wobuholi, amaqela amancinci angabonakaliyo avela. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza "uqokelelwano kwiqela" luqala ukuphazamisa imbono yoluntu lwabonke abaqokelelwayo, ke eli qela liza kuthiwa yereferensi enye.
Isidingo sokuvela kweenjongo kunye nombutho wezenzo zabasebenzi, ekugqibeleni kukhokelela ekuveleni kwenkokheli. Oku kufana nawo onke amaqela aqulethwe ngabantu abathathu okanye ngaphezulu. Kwizengqondo, kukho iintlobo ezintathu zeenkokheli: inkokeli enengqondo emncinci, inkokeli kunye nenkokeli yendawo.
- INkokheli. Le ilungu leqela, elinalo igunya elikhulu, ngubani okwazi ukukholisa nokukhuthaza. Kwamanye amalungu eqela lakhe, unokuchaphazela ngokukhawuleza ukubukeka, isenzo okanye igama. Inkokheli kufuneka ibe nale mpawu: ukusebenza ngokomzimba, amandla kunye nempilo entle.
Ukuzithemba wena kunye nobuchule bakho, igunya, umnqweno wokuphumelela naluphi na umzamo. Inkokeli kufuneka ibe yingqiqo, ibe ne-intuition efanelekileyo kwaye ibe nokuqala kokudala. Kubalulekile nokuba nezakhono zonxibelelwano , ukukwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu kunye nokuqhagamshelana. - Inkokeli enengqondo encinci. Unobungcali obuncinane ngaphezu kweenkokheli. Ngokuqhelekileyo uzibeka njengomzekelo, akhuthaza "ukwenza njengoko ndenzayo." Ichaphazela kuphela inxalenye yeqela.
- Ewe, ekugqibeleni, inkokeli yendawo. Loo mntu unempawu ezithile zomntu ezinokuba luncedo kwiimeko ezithile, umzekelo othile, umbutho wesiganeko.